Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.


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We believe in encouraging real relations between Asian Men and Black Women. Contact:

Site Manifesto

Black Women Asian Men United Was Established in 2009 After the shut down of DCAMBW.  

The site is currently funded yearly by the Creator.

BWAMU Mission

...To encourage, support, and promote interaction between one another...

[This is not solely about romantic relationships, (there are many types of REAL relationships, it's about human relationships, interactions, involvement, friendships, and our effect on one another and the individuals we are to the world we live in]

What are we doing here?

The focus here is to bring acceptance to ALL inter-racial, inter-cultural relationships, with the main importance of the once (and in many ways still-) taboo connections of Black Women and Asian Men.

Why are we doing this?

We are doing this because there is still racism in the world. There are people that still give unwarranted looks and/or remarks when they would see a Black Woman with an Asian Man in almost any context.

Where, Who, How?

By being a member, YOU are the person who is going to make a difference. You will do it within the locale you are from or going to reside. We are going to do this by connecting, with a deep network of men and women interchanging experiences, helpful hands, and in the public by showing that we all can hang out, have fun, laugh, cry, and be in relations with one another. We present the world with what they might not have encountered before, to open the doors for both curious and serious AM and BW (or any other race open to interracial relationships or socializing) to know that “it’s okay.”

So, we support getting to know others, and allowing yourself to be known by others. We support people making events and inviting their friends –creating a ripple/mark in time …thereby changing the future.

We believe in encouraging real relations between Asian Men and Black Women.

We connect and continue with similar goals, as BW can have a place to express and have shared understanding with other BW and such the same for AM with AM. We are not here to put AM or BW on an uneven plane or pedestal. We focus on connections rather than just one spectrum.

In essence, you are allowed to be who you are. You will be accepted so as long as you are open and honest with yourself and others, you will be fine -and if you are not, well, the site will test inherent self-deception that is usually the reason for not being able to connect.

Enjoy the site. It's your world, do what you will with it –but don’t abuse it.


The point of Bwam is 1) Interaction/Friendships, 2) Self-Expression/Evolution, 3) Self Change/Understanding through Events/Experiences and Eachother.

Please Note: The voice of THE PEOPLE, the membership of BWAMU2 that will rule the day. But if you are found to have a fake account, or double account, your days are numbered -you will be dismissed by the Admins. Any harassment beyond the emotional, physical, spiritual, mental, or relational boundaries of another without consent will be deemed grounds for termination of your profile.  If you wish to appeal, the site email is and I'll research the admins on why you were banned.  (Admins listed on the right.)

***Bwamu is one of the most controversial sites in existence on the subject of Black Women and Asian Men.  The proliferation of FB groups, meetups, and sites were based on the conception of this site.  We weren't first, because we are based off of DCAMBW and thus why Bwamu has the 2 in it's url link.  We are the most open site because we accept that we mimics life's issues.  We are bringing people together (creating friendships, babies, relationships, and good times) that wouldn't have been without the mere being of Bwamu***

***Attention...if you don't like it, delete yourself, come back in a few months like everyone else does (often under a different name/ fake profile) and carry on  OR better yet, go add on to the other 50 or so FB AMBW groups just because you don't like Bwamu, it's been done 50 or so times with a couple of successful groups!****


Age Limit: 17

NO, we aren't shutting down- BWAMU FOREVER!


WE are no longer asking for donations or help unless you personally want to.  I asked and made it mandatory for the first two years because I couldn't handle it alone while going to school.  Thank you to all those who have helped in the past, and as you see, the site is still here, kicking and running even after all the naysayers and conspiracy theorists.  Enjoy the site, it's your's.

You can donate through paypal but it's NOT MANDATORY (through the Send Payment option) to

[[ Be sure to include the email, username you use, and the date to help me datebase the information. ]]

* This is a social network; however, the age requirement is now 17+

* No nude profile pics please -leave that stuff on your personal albums, do what you want with your page, and if you want to do things that are questionable, privatize your albums. [Please inform an admin to remove open nude material by inboxing a link to the material.]  Try your best to keep questionable material in the appropriate groups for those who use the site at work.  If you are going to post something questionable on the forum, don't make it activate or show without clicking a link and warn that the media may be of a questionable nature.

* If you get into a dispute, first try to handle it yourself, directly, if you can't or wont, then come to one of the administrators so we can either mediate, or suggest actions. Banning someone should be the last option, and I have added the "suspend" option to the site, but we are human and adults, we can learn and change our perspective.

*I am highly aware that not all people are here for actual full fledged relationships, so if you are about that, just keep it upfront with each other.  No need to lie and create mini-dramas on the site or leave due to being misled.  We are attempting to bring people together, not pull them apart.

*Be yourself, express yourself, tolerate others, and get to know yourself and others in the process. You can't get along with someone you don't understand or come to know. (Basic spiritual, philosophical lesson here!)  But if you get off on negative energy, go around harassing people and have personal issues that need to be resolved, let's not do that on the public basis.  Personal Issues are NOT site issues, so don't make it one.  Go seek professional help.

**Try not to take pictures of people in the chat, or steal their pics on the site please. If a normal member asks you not to reply to them, just respect them and their choice. We are not all going to get along.

***NEW Probelms? Contact me directly in the inbox or the website email.

Inboxes are open!



***Attention...if you don't like it, delete yourself, come back in a few months like everyone else does (often under a different name/ fake profile) and carry on  OR better yet, go add on to the other 50 or so FB AMBW groups just because you don't like Bwamu, it's been done 50 or so times with a couple of successful groups!****



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Bwamu Has Over 1000 Visitors a Day!

Bwamu Chat!  Get ON!  Link provided!
Click The Upper Left Floating Link That Says "Video Chat"




OR Click this Routing Link Below!   ((Note: The Video Chat link below looks like it reroutes you to the site, but there is a HTag program that runs the chat, you have to wait a second before it pops up, then click the (up arrow button) for it to pop out.))





Click The Upper Left Floating Link That Says "Video Chat"


((Note: The Video Chat link below looks like it reroutes you to the site, but there is a HTag program that runs the chat, you have to wait a second before it pops up, then click the (up arrow button) for it to pop out.))





Welcome to the Main Page - DON'T FORGET TO BOOKMARK IT.  You can Navigate the entire network Using the Tabs!  Always Come Back to the Main Page if you get Lost BY CLICKING "MAIN" To go to your page and check your comments, click "My Page"-Settings are in the upper right box.  Click Members to search them, and use the advanced button next to it to find folks from your area!



(Most People Come On After Work Or School, If no One is There, start the party)

1) Beeping Online Chat on the bottom Right we call "BAR CHAT" (Click the gray Bar that says 'Black Women Asian Men United Chat # Online'). You can private chat, go offline, and pop it out too. 

2) An integrated group cam chat upper left we call  "TC CHAT" (Click Video Chat Bwam Click Here).  Once the first window can click the upward pointing arrow to make it pop out!

3)If it's currently not working, you can just click this link


Or use the tinychat app and come to the room which is vvssovann





Other Stuff

Site Hover Bar- ON TOP OF THE SITE!!! LOOK, Besides "TC Chat" THAT ONLY MEMBERS CAN GET ON, A SITE COMMENT BOX, AN INSTANT MESSENGER, Ability to share what is on Bwam to other Social Networks and Blogs, A scrolling Reminder, and a WHAT's NEW you can always click to know what's going on with big events and financials.  TRY THEM OUT PEOPLE! You can't break anything, so you might as well explore and use this place to your desire!

Welcome One Another

Say Hi to the Newbies above *Welcome Them* - THE NEWEST 30 MEMBERS ARE FEATURED ABOVE!  Upcoming Events and Discussions are Below.  You can Use the Tabs that say Events or Forums respectfully above. 

Always Something To Do!

You can browse Videos of our site Membership and post your own (please refrain from posting music videos, but feel free to show your own personal videos), and start your own Blog too!  Join a Group for support and don't forget to click the "View All" button on all these boxes...they give you even MORE!


Get on Vid Chat (Click the upper left VideoChatroom (TC) Link then click the up arrow OR 


Or for a Third MODDED Chat



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Our Mission (Tenative)


[[If the button above gives you and error or problems, do a "send payment" to from your paypal. PAYMENT DUE TO NING EARLY AUGUST, SO JUNE 30TH OF EACH YEAR IS THE DEADLINE.]]

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!



Killa: The realest nigga.

 Dessie: She may be the baby of the admins, but it's safe to say she is an old soul. Very open minded and energetic, and a tumblr addict.  


Miyabi: Open minded and funny, yet brutally honest.

She's a japanophile and very exotic.


Ms. Moe: Wise beyond her years, kind hearted, genuine, very outspoken, writer and artist, brutally honest. She keeps it real and enjoys helping others, but if you don't want absolute honesty, she's probably the wrong person to ask!


Manga: Spiritual and Balanced Person.  Spiritual Adviser.  Bwam Councilwomen


Olive_Juice: Freelance writer and music lover.  Into creative expressions and cultural unity.  Forum watcher and mediator.

Intricate: Economics background, Cool Headed.  Graphics and Design.

RonaldNY: Keen Listener and Watcher, Accounting, and very reliable.  Great Guy!  Event and Membership Communications.

Q: Our West Cost Motorcycle enthusiast. She has technical skills and a cute dog! Forum Watcher.


Niecy: An artist that works with many mediums, always there to lend an ear, easy going, and a motivator. 

Neo:The aspiring psychologist -- loves to study people, analyze behavior ... but at the same time loves meeting new people.  Tiny chat & Bar chat moderator.

Mango: was here.

 If you would like to see certain changes or want to try out to be an admin...write out in bullet text what can be changed, policies, and or site enhancements.  Then write a short essay on what you think the site mission is and how we get there.




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