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This is to the guys: Ever feel invisible?  Ever feel like you want to dance to your favorite song, but too scared to ask anyone or even dance by yourself? One guy wished he could have my candor.  Wish!? REALLY?!!!  Why the HELL are you guys SHY? Who the Hell told you that you were inadequate, unattractive, uncool or unlovable?  Stop hiding behind what your insecurities, Man UP!  You are in YOUR PLAYGROUND NOW!  

Take this site, teeming with gorgeous young women who are HERE for YOU!  They came because they want to MEET YOU and guys LIKE YOU. I myself did an internet search and got lucky and found a guy here who freaking rocks my world to the point where I am writing bad poetry.  We are all here to TALK to YOU.  We women here find YOU attractive.  You look at yourself and think otherwise, but have you EVEN tried to talk to one us?  The women here outnumber you probably 50 to 1!  If one says no, there are 20 others who may say yes!  Yet a lot of you guys are too freaking shy to even say "Hi" or hop into the main room and THEY will fall all over themselves to GREET YOU! 

I am ballsy, and I am a chick, but I was shy.  I had one boyfriend at 18.  I sat on the sidelines hoping to be noticed and nuthin!  I love to dance, but no one ever asked me. I once I went to a club wearing a hoochie outfit, I got tired of waiting for someone to talk to me, and as I left I heard over my shoulder this dismayed, " Awww, she's leaving?!"  I was too pissed off to even turn around.  That is until I used this line from an 80's movie.  Ever seen Risky Business?  This one scene totally changed my life. Listen carefully to Miles. His wisdom is amazing. 

  Empower yourself with WTF! This was my first discussion and I surely said WTF and just started writing.  Look at 'em, The Alpha Males who get mad love here aren't the shy guys, they aren't even the best looking, smart or charming.  They are the ones who say WTF!

 Sure, you may not be successful all the time, no one is, but if you don't say it you don't bring the opportunity.  Saying WTF will toughen your ass up!  That hot girl may very well like you or want to talk to you. Say WTF and find the hell out!  Take your insecurity and then say WTF and go against it. If she says no then try another.  Take your fear and WTF the hell out of it. I guarantee that saying WTF will change your life.  Use it often, practice it, make a T-shirt chant the bitch.  Whatever it takes until it becomes second nature.  Don't say hunh? or make up reasons not to try it.  You want it? Say WTF and get it boy! Got a question for me? Say WTF and ask me!  

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Ladies, we aren't we aren't holding out for a hero, we are holding out for a HIRO, can I get an AMEN!?

ROLLING and Continue to Roll off the floor!!! Whew you took the words and thoughts right out of so many womens mouths!!! LOL. It is almost as some pitiful epedemic. Men constantly say they are shy. I understand they have to deal with rejection far more than women do but If I am giving the smile look like come here or you wave at me and I wave back like I'm interested, then there is no excuse. We are not art hanging in an gallery just wanting to be admired from a far all the time. Real Women appreciate a real man that approaches us to ask for a dance or wants to take us out or simply would like to say, you are looking beautiful. Because it exudes uninhibited confidance. To be able to view the woman as worthy to take the risk inspite of what may be your undesired out come. Yes it is all about manning up but , it still takes a guy with some "kahunas" to man up.

haha, love the movie clip

Clearly, you're an Alpha, a Pack Mastah!  Show the young pups how it's done! 


Use it bruddah, I do. You only live once, unless you're Hindu, and are reincarnated as a frog. In that case, Croak it and freakin' hop on!

Awesome post Kim!

I just got semi hard...........

Guuuuurrrl, thank you for this post!  I sometimes spend too much time convincing shy Asian guys that they are attractive in some shape and form... OMG!  I really think that is why it is a 50 to 1 ratio on this site.  There are more Asian guys out there that like black girls but are way too intimidated to get onto a safe site where all the girls are looking for you.  Really??? The shy ones on the site, got up the courage to log on to the site and are trying to figure out what is appropriate to do... Then you got the Alphas that are macking all over the site (love them by the way).  Its comedy....


Girls, you too!


Come on!!!! REALLY??? WTF!!!

What the fuck gives you freedom? Freedom brings opportunity. Opportunity makes your future. What the fuck!! You can't say it. You can't do it.--GOOD FOR ME.


What the fuck! Thank you for a good video clip. Is there any good advice for an older man to start a family?

Lol! Thats a good one!


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