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Going out and meeting Asian man they also seem afraid to aproach and start a conversation. And no I am a very aproachable female who knows how to strike up a conversation about everything thing. Anyone have this experience?

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you should channel your confidence in walking up to them

and then touching their nonos

So you approach. Ask for directions or something sneaky like that and go from there.

That's a great way to get them talking!
Hi guys

If you are very approachable then maybe the attraction is not there so not so not much being afraid.

Of course if the attraction is there and he is not reciprocating well then agree it could be shyness, being afraid, intimidated, etc.

If you can somehow demonstrate you "know something asian", ie: greeting them in their native language, have something "asian like" on you, being in an "asian environment" then you will improve the "approaching dilemma".

Anyhow, you were probably looking to find related experience rather than some suggestions so I'll peace out.


I have kinda of experienced the same thing. I was in south korea for a summer and there were a few times that I knew that a guy wanted to talk to me but there was like a hesitation on his part. And when talking to other people they noticed that there is a shyness depending on the person. But a majority of the time I have realized that you have to make the first move but don't come off to much. If that makes sense lol.


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