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Its not called being picky, but what are your must haves in a relationship?

Its not being picky, but its something you must have in your relationship, something you can't remove from your list. What are they?

Mines are: PDA (im super affectionate), has his beliefs, good hygiene, not a assessive cursing person, non smoker, like kids, and no drugs including marijuana.

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Gorgeous Asian man employed, bout my age and fun. Someone looking for same relationship values as me.

I would have to say for him to be himself. He must be ambitious, loyal, trustworthy, hardworking, a good father figure, goal oriented, and some what romantic. I don't care if he curses, and smokes weed. However, I don't want a lazy person, liar, cheater, or a person that don't want children. I really don't think that I need to say hygiene hopefully everyone does have Tony the Tiger great hygiene.
"And able to wear hair naturally" lol Daniel

I know im is my list:

Must haves:



Classy (so if your boobs or butt are hanging out, we can be platonic friends but it won't go any farther). I believe that a woman don't have to flaunt it to get attention. 

The hair comments are killing me *dies* lol
I totally agree
Open-minded, non-judgemental, NOT RACIST/PREJUDICED, good hygiene, good chemistry, not trying to change who I am, ambition, etc.
Have a sense of humor, honest, strong Willed, goal oriented, loyal

employed (had my fair of guys who weren't employed and expected me to support them.), ambitious, loyal, not drugs at all. and fun

I would like an honest, monogamous, and affectionate man. There are other things I look for BUT i think those three can be challenging enough to find...


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