Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

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Dear Member of

We are going to be asking for donations and support to keep the site up until the June 30th deadline to contribute.  If you support our site -and what it means to you and your heart to do so to keep it alive... if you made friendships, had relationships, lovers, children, and earned something of value here, or even made a penpal, hooked up, or just made it a venue to rant with blogs...then you inherently gained something of unique value. 


I am asking you to help support the site with any donation you can.  In the past, we have asked for $12 from members over 21 and $6 from those under 21.   It was mandatory to do so or to help the site find good members.  Paying for this site...this was one of the main grievances of members who left, but they were inactive except to complain and didn't even make events...But now, it is NOT MANDATORY to pay to be a member of this site.  You can freeload, have it free, and keep it free...if some others step up and contribute to keep this place alive.  Any little can help, and we appreciate the support, and we will be asking for help each year around this time.  


I have worked hard in putting both technical changes and my own time into the site for your benefit, enjoyment, and overall interaction...and because of this we have the strongest site that concentrates on Black Women and Asian Men...this is undeniable.  Members that have been here for a long stretch can really see the changes.  But we are not perfect...we are people, and that's all I can say.  We can and will grow together. 

If you would like to see any technical changes, besides things I can't change such as "individual's choice of expressing themselves on the site," let me know. 


For those who have already donated to the site, I thank you and the rest of the membership thanks you for it! 




Internet/Credit Card/ Paypal:  Sign on to Paypal and do a "SEND PAYMENT" to  BLACKWASIANM@GMAIL.COM or use the Donate Button on the site.


Site: $500 a year

Memory Usage: around $250 a year

Skyssa Bar: $75 a year (but I already paid for it this year) 


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I wish I had money to donate, but I only have 2 bucks left and I dunno if that will help with anything. I don't have a PayPal neither. :/
I'm sending in $100 via snail mail sometime in May.  Hopefully he'll use it to help defray costs for you and others!

That's really kind of you. I thank you for helping the site.

I hope I can collect more money so I can contribute. :)

Don't worry about it.  I'm sure there are other people like myself who can give more to cover for those who can't at the moment.  Main thing is that this place exists so we can all do whatever it is we wanna do here!
I really really do not understand why you don't just put ads on the top and sides of the site. Who really cares?? If its such a financial burden just do that. I really think you should have a poll asking people what they would think if you could pay for the site by having an ad at the top and side.

Go find me some Rain. 


2 words: google adsense.


It's very easy, set it up!

rain is right, adsense aint that annoying. Also there are members that might be happy to pay a small or agreeable fee to advertise there site or watever there promoting i believe. Remember the bwam shirt or commodity idea? im still down to buy one if somebody knows cs5 or something similar to design...Underdogs like me are usually frantically loyal and represent watever movement there down with. Just a thought...again!

Also i will donate. I just been selfish lately spoiling myself. Sry V...

Talk is cheap, i kno. But soon enuff brotha :)...u'll see a from moninn yem from paypal soon lol. I was gonna bump this but somebody beat me to it. Anything does help btw even if its one dallah! And pay pal is easy to set up and free to donator!

Um...I do have it set up, and I had to send a ticket into's not working, I also have another one going on too.  Neither is working.  Moninn, you can check it in the programming on the's just not going.  It says it's working...but nothing. 


Donation months are now over, it's fine, the site is paid for for another year...Thanks much to all those who have contributed *hugs Ciera* and it's cool Stanley

late reply-  well  you should  leave  donations  open  year  round  so  people  can  send  3  dollars,  10 dollars  here  and  there  or  where ever they have  money.  they  may not  have  money  when  you have  donations  opens...  ''oh  i paid  for my  summer  vacation  already  and  nothing  left''  or... yeah.. whatever  excuse.   leave  it  open  at  christmas.  maybe they will be  extra  merry  and  donate  something  even  if  they ''spent  all Their money on xmas gifts already''.  

so even if its  due  in august,  you can  already  be  collecting  the  money year  round  so there  won't  be  a  scramble  at  in  june  to  get  money  up.  i know  its  annoying  to  spend  your  own money  all the  time.  

at  any rate,  i wanna  donate,  I'm  just  barely  scraping  by.  there is  no  welfare  or  food  stamps in japan.  trying  to find  a second  job  and  blah  blah. will  donate  in april or may  this  year. 

I will be sending something to you this month V. I really enjoy this site.


Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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