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I am hoping we can learn and benefit from one another. Of course anyone is welcome to comment that might help these crazy and lonely people lol that choose this lifestyle. Even if ur committed or use to be single. And please do list things u havent or wanna try. Some of these things i have done even while in a comitted relationship btw. Mind you this is when i had a life lol. I will continue to do this. NO MATTA. Hopefully we can help the ones feeling complacent, lonely or even the bored couple.

Me personally. I get into to new hobbies, stay busy and not complacent. Keep a healthy lifestyle. I keep various notes either on my celly or real notepad to attempt to stay organized. And most importantly always always keep an open mind and look for opportunity for fun.

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New & old hobbies i fell in love with. Here are sum..

I have taken, dance lessons..yes tango,rumba,salsa, ballroom and all that jazz . If u do ur research, could be free, to affordable, to expensive. Failed miserable btw lol.

Taken bartender classes

Taken motorcycle safety classes

Yoga classes, i am truley addicted.

Tested out diff gym memberships.

Act like im buying a car only to test it out lol. And yes some will pull your credit which can lower a lil.

Biking and jogging. Joging in trails and downtown is fun btw. Biking down public stairs and doing jumps is a blast. Especially when u fall in front of hot girls lol..DOwn hill mtn biking is the best. Big biycle gatherings. YEs they even have hidden drunk rides for the masses

WEEKEND WARRIOR; motorcycling. Early Sunday mornings on your favorite hairpins, on and off ramps, highways and mountain roads. U can get away at ridiculous speeds at 5-6am lol

Hiking, indoor rock climbing, parasailing, scuba, jet ski's, boating, kayaking, fishing, surfing, sking, diving off stupid and dangerous places, climbing trees, crawfishing, crabing, crossing rapids, innertubing, kiting to drag kiting, renting cabins, i am afraid the list goes on...

New restaurants or new foods. I have tried Ethiopian coffee shops to samples of Somalian, Samoan food, braziallian steaks, Morrocan foods, russian foods etc etc.

Road trips, long ways, scenic routes, not using a map, lol not asking for directions, off roading healll yeah.

New beers and cocktails. I sample A many. And made many concoctions that were great but mostly forgot : ( lol

Tours: Boeing tour, wine tours, factory tours even local tours that explain about your own city lol.

New clubs or diff types of clubs. ie country bar, latin bars/clubs, and diff types of asian clubs.

Comedey clubs to improv nites to funny plays.

Learning guitar and piano.

local concerts ie folk music, punk bands, jazz, etc.

Coffee shops/barns&Nobles, borders, laundry mats even if i have on at home, wifi places to chill.

Play and hide and seek still at parks at night lmao. Egg fights, paintball.

organize or help orginize stuff/things/events.

Window shopping, thrift stores, garage sales.

Golf, orgainzed sports.

Have cocktail, wine, or any spirirts nights. Board game nights, amateur casino nights, to real casino nights (cheap food and alacahol btw) Sunday footballs (any sporting events), a many many bbq's lol. Asian American style baby showers/functions/holidays. Video game nights.

Crashing a friends place lol ie home, party, dinners, spending a night, place of business.

Of course dating and meeting new peopple :)

Somethings on check list still.

Backingpacking, learning a new language, mastering or at least competent on a muscial intrument, maybe a major in math, building a home from scratch lol, yatching, sewing YES i said it, competent at baking, making. spirits beer, wine, liquor, speed dating, host/oganized/cater functions, events, fundraiser. Motorcrossing. Ourdoor rock climbing, Open a physical business. Take some more clasess on watever that floats my boat. Black tie event. COmpetiton of some sort. Predomintaly white or black clubs. Join a book club maybe. Join a sports leaugue. Collect backbacks, biycicles and anything i deem cool. Track days : ( Driving a bigrig, driving or operating anything i havent tried really, helicopter ride or piloting it lol. Gliding :(..Travel more

i have many more that i have done or want to do but i'll keep at this so far.
some? lol
lol it may seem alot for the young, but when u lived a single life for awhile and are open to new or creative ways to not get bored...

I know peeps that have bigger lists or more exotic.
Ok Monin...where do you get the energy? please bottle it, put a patent on it and sell!
Staying young at heart, good diet and exercise helps alot lol and maintaining to be single.

SINGLE = FREETIME = :p could also = :( sometimes

Thanks for listing btw.
Gotta bite my tongue here lol. I will say this. U make life what it is, i try to choose friends carefully. Fortunately some have common interests.

But its no holiday. Theres 365 days to a year. I have as much downs as ups. Unfortunately i have incurred lotsa downers half of last year and this year so far for trying something new. Theres always risk involved at anything and the up and downs of life.
"Play and hide and seek still at parks at night lmao. Egg fights, paintball."

plz tell them this never gets old

a couple of summers back I had a soda fight with my friends
Your team chooses a color red or purple (wtvr color floats your boat) feel your water balloons and water gunz with your teams' color soda. Everyone wheres a white T and go at (You "die" if you get soaked in another team's color). We used those really cheap sodas it's like 1 for 2, 2 litter bottles. This was our alternative to paintball since we were broke. No matter what age you are the park is always fun.
it never gets old :p

I wanna water balloon fight so bad. Remember dodge ball? that was the shit.
Its never to late.
Some of the things that I do since I'm now single are:

1. Read more
2. Go for walks
3. Indulge my addictions
4. More road trips
5. Hang out w/my girlfriends
6. Try new things
7. Fill the fluids in my car
8. Wash my car
9. Travel
10. Meet new and interesting people
11. Shop more

Things I'm going to do:

1. Take the motorcycle safety course
2. Buy my Kawasaki Vulcan or Ninja
3. Travel more outside the US
4. Move out west
5. Continue to indulge my addictions
6. Be more social
My goodness, you put everyone to shame Monnin.

Here's my list:
roller blading/ ice skating lessons
salsa dancing lessons
Meet up social groups
writing poetry
Made an attempt at being an entrepreneur (didn't go well)
joined the gym
took nice scenic walks in the park and on bridges
Traveled more

I still want to:
Learn to play the piano
Travel to even more countries
Go into space, anything's possible don't laugh
Move to San Diego
Buy a house and an apartment building (I have big plans for that)

I guess that's it for now.

1. DAYDREAMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2. Jogging in the middle of the country
3. Walks (idem)
4. Reading
Hip Hop dancing
QUALITY TIME with my fam&friends
Breaking the habits chatting (in real life yo) with new peeps
Appreciating my day - You know that feelling "I'm feeling good (all by myself)"
Considering wooersxP


chattin it up with friends
Talk with My bro#1


Avoiding musshy dramas (considerably harm single life in maaaaanny ways.)

Considering the flops of others "love"lives

Want to;

Travel to cameroon-states-japan
create a HipHop crew
Go to the cultural center of J to lend some books lol
Get a job(during vacation)
Meet up with OH so many ppl..Why can't i be organised.T___T

'Till the good thing shows up, Imma avoid the bad ones. Im single 'cause Nothing good enough showed up.
Thinking about what I escaped from really does soothes me.


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