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You allowed the person you were talking to to see the contents of your cellphone?

You allowed your BF / GF all your emails and passwords to all your site accounts?

If your life was on Cam each and every moment of the day besides the obvious bathroom and private breaks?

;) Thanks Barbie, Ken, Anna, and Merenda for the forwarded texts -giving me the idea for this thread!


(As for me, pretty much all my info about me and my past and views for the future are in the open - either on this site or facebook. [I hide nothing...if it's about me, just ask.]   If it was my passcodes and such are hers as well as mine.  If we ever break up, I know how to change my passwords.  I wouldn't mind a camera following me, but I need a break from it to spend special times with my friends and family - because I would go through with it, doesn't mean they would.  My cellphone is also open, and my number is on my FB and here.  I don't answer stray calls without there being a text first, and I don't control what others say to me.  I control what I say back, and because I can pretty much explain and control what I say, well...hey- that's just me.  My integrity is worth a lot, and if I am wavering, undecided, or have a dilemma, people usually know about this too.  For me it's all about clarity and giving people REAL choices by Providing TRUTH.  What's the point of getting to know each other when you really don't get to know each other - but their representatives.  If I fear how others see me, then by core, I fear what I see in thus, it's a mark for change.)     

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could you write a little louder, i cant hear you.

Don't got no secrets.
At least not any I'm hiding in my comp or cell.
And I'm not doing anything scandalous for the hidden cameras to catch.
Look away, Mofos.
You are a winner Shy!
Heather is a Winner!
<_br /> ._.

he's still on thin ice, MAYBE *glares at him*
in all seriousness you can never know these days, you can find interesting things on someone's phone. On my part, however, you could look up anything you want to on me and you wouldn't find squat.
*High Five Njeri
Really, are you serious, omg, wtf!!!!
Very insightful....I love it. And you sure hit the nail on the head...A+
You get Honors Kendra for trying!
Tal is a winner! Sorry you had to go through that girl, you are a great example of what happens.


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