Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.


AM/BW Couples Support Group


AM/BW Couples Support Group

This is for people who are IN A RELATIONSHIP and joined this site to mingle with other couples and members in AM/BW relationships. Feel free to share stories & pics as you like.

Members: 46
Latest Activity: Dec 9, 2016

Discussion Forum

I dont know what to do!

Started by brenda. Last reply by Kristyn May 4, 2016. 2 Replies

Need some help, I been dating my guy off and on for about 2 years now.we have a good relationship we have our up and down, but we can never stay mad  at each other for more than 30 min. He is only…Continue

I need some advice!! please!

Started by Leanne Richards. Last reply by Leanne Richards Nov 3, 2012. 6 Replies

Hi everyone i'm new here. From UK!!!! Yay!!Well I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. He's Japanese and lives in Japan and I live in Uk, so yeh very long distance relationship. We…Continue

Tags: Relationship, British, Japanese, Long distance

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Comment by Kristyn on May 4, 2016 at 7:50am

I'm late to this group, but I'm an African American married to a Japanese (not American) guy three years this May. We're doing well, but like every couple, have had our challenges. But, the number is still small enough to generate stares. I hope people will get to the place where we are not viewed as oddities- just a man and woman who chose to be with each other. In the meanwhile, we continue to enjoy life.

Comment by Lacole Johnsen on August 15, 2013 at 5:44pm
Whats up with my asian boyfriend I want to meet his family ( since he met mine for dinner last week) and i feel bad because i want him to be proud to introduce me to his family i feel like am i doing something wrong or something or what? HELP!!!
Comment by FantasyStar24 on October 31, 2012 at 3:27pm

Our relationship has become official, but we've been talking for a year! Havent had any troubles, but there are challenges with all relationships! Its a great thing!

Comment by Rea on February 25, 2012 at 1:15am
Hmm... That's unfortunate to hear. I would suggest talking to your significant other first to see if he has told her that he is taken. Having a discussion between the two of you first todecide the steps needed to be taken to either send a polite message, de-friending or just ignoring her altogether. Since she is hitting on your guy, it should be his responsibility to let her know that he is taken. contacting her directly and asking her to 'back off' nicely would be your last resort. I recommend doing all of the contacting via private message just to prevent embarrassment and demonstrate maturity. I hope things work out. :-)
Comment by Blithedanser on July 24, 2011 at 3:06am
hey guys! really good to see a group like this. I was pretty sure that almost all if not all the people on here were single and looking. I am in a relationship that has lasted 9 mos and I am really looking forward to all that a bwam relationship has to offer.:)
Comment by shanaenicolehughes on June 7, 2011 at 1:06pm
my relationship has ended but i still show support to everyone else ..
Comment by EM on June 4, 2011 at 4:55pm
Hello new to the site ....this is my first group I have joined.

I have been my relationship for almost 4 years...estatic to meet/ share with other couples.
Comment by Tam on April 18, 2011 at 1:56am
Married, but have run into difficulties... Not AMBW difficulties, more like life challenges.  One thing I like about my husband... he is not giving up on us.  We have been together for a long time and have run into slight cultural clashes at times, but we have always been able to get thru them.  Now we just need to work harder on ourselves and keep the family together.  We have one son.
Comment by Chelluvs on March 9, 2011 at 3:06pm
Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask are there any challenges you've run into being AM/BW couple? Do think your region plays a part in these challenges? Black Women have you received any negative comments from Black Men or anyone else in the African American community?
Comment by Tousha Peoples on March 3, 2011 at 8:13pm
I'm with someone but really dont know if he truly serious with me. On his profile still show single but he tells me he love me but dont know if he claiming me. lol

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