Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Getting to Know You . . .


Getting to Know You . . .

For those interested in being positive, sincere, and mutually sharing your authentic self. Here you can possibly make real connections and friendships beyond cyber space, despite all the cultural hoopla, stereotypes and trivial expectations.

Members: 436
Latest Activity: Mar 19

A message to all members . . .



What is this group really about?


This is a group for those interested in making realistic connections; friendships, relationships, commitments and otherwise with out regard to cultural aspects, languages or stereotypical physical appearances. This group is about coming together and learning about another individual for the person they truly are, and NOT necessarily purposely for their demographic or other obvious traits.


Primarily for those who don’t quite fit into a particular mold or any at all, are not as well known on the site, are very shy or discreet about their social interactions with others, not able to make social events to actually meet anyone (as yet), those who may be here out of curiosity alone, or have no said agenda. Feel free to share anything about yourself here; share what's on your mind.  This group is about being positive, sincere, and sharing your Authentic Self with others; not your cyber self. Here you can possibly make real connections and friendships beyond cyber space, despite all the cultural hoopla, stereotypes or trivial expectations. 


Regardless as to your physical appearance, gender, age, ethnicity, language, religious background, sexual orientation, education level, disability, socioeconomic status, national origin, etc., IT DOESN'T MATTER in this group; it's not about what you are, it's who you are, the person.


Getting to Know You is genuinely about people getting to know each other as realistically as possible in spite of the many partitions of communications; email, telephone, web cam, instant messenger, text, etc., which may not always reveal the genuine person you actually are.  This is a positive space to mutually understand and learn about our likes, dislikes, quirks, silliness, level of emotions, fears, hopes, sense of humor, dreams, desires, ambitions, issues, and or secrets, etc.  This group is about learning to communicate better with each other and completely supporting each member, in any way we can, by mutually expressing or giving support to each other.  Not exactly a touchy-feely group, but please feel free to share.


This is more about TIME and EFFORT versus IMMEDIATE JUDGMENTS; which can be incorrect.  It's possible to miss something good, great, even spectacular, especially, if never investing any time or effort.




Thank you so much for joining!


No need to be shy here.  Now, let’s get to know the real you . . .

Discussion Forum

Three things about you (just for fun) . . .

Started by SweetPea. Last reply by Slim Savage Sep 8, 2016. 124 Replies

 Three things about you (just for fun) . . .1.)  What’s your real nickname; given to you by…Continue

Tags: Personality, Fun

Gender Ration is 1:10

Started by Kaela. Last reply by Slim Savage Sep 8, 2016. 2 Replies

Is it just me or does it seem like there are way more females on this site then there are men? Nothing against women it's nice getting to know other women that have similar taste and that will not…Continue

Tags: #asian, #Ijustwanna, know, #black, #female

Honesty Time

Started by SweetPea. Last reply by Ouell Aug 30, 2015. 21 Replies

I joined this site not looking for anything. Ok, maybe a way to find forgiveness for…Continue

Tags: Change, Enlightenment, Experience

Comment Wall


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Comment by Brookie on July 27, 2016 at 7:03am

Hello everyone. My name is Brooke but you may also call me Brookie.  I am 28 years old and I currently live in Sulphur, Louisiana. I moved here from Tucson, Arizona in 2015 at the end of July. I enjoy networking, cooking, watching my favorite types of movies,  arts and crafts, watching I.D.,  and Law and order SVU.  I'm here to meet new people to network with , friendship, and possibly a relationship. Just never know what could happen, so I am open to that. Don't be shy to contact me. If you're cool, we will get along just fine.

Comment by Destiny on April 20, 2016 at 6:52pm
I'm 23 from Louisiana. Lol I'm sure no one on here is from that state but I'm looking to meet some interesting people. Like to be out of the box and travel plus i write poetry and make funny videos. I'm a little weird munchkin lol no not really.
Comment by ph on April 12, 2016 at 6:23pm

any one from uk , london

Comment by ph on February 8, 2016 at 10:48am

 i am Paras, from London uk born and bred. Been long time since come back on this sight..thought i would reintroduce myself, im 31 and i am looking to talk to like minded people and networking.

Comment by Tiki73 on January 27, 2016 at 12:11am

Hello there, hoping this group is still active. Looks like its been a bit quite around here.

Comment by Nika Ra on December 12, 2015 at 11:40pm
Hello everyone!
Comment by Karen A. on November 8, 2015 at 12:03pm
Hello, Shawn.
Comment by Shawn Moffitt on November 7, 2015 at 3:51am
Hello everyone! My name is Shawn Moffitt. I'm 21 years old and a student at the University of Iowa. My major is International Studies. I'm half Korean and I'm currently learning Japanese. I love to take long walks and getting lost in a good book. Thanks for reading!
Comment by Lj on October 29, 2015 at 10:26pm
Hello, I just started on this site. I'm looking forward to meeting new friends. I enjoy good conversation, movies, bowling, watching football, etc. I'm hoping for good things. So message me if you're wanting to know more.
Comment by Jelly on September 9, 2015 at 8:16pm

Hi there! You can call me Jelly.

I'm 26 and I've been on this site for a bit without much success...hopefully someone can change that!

I enjoy making art, cooking, reading, listening to music, and dancing. Message me if you want to talk!


Members (435)


Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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