Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Getting to Know You . . .


Getting to Know You . . .

For those interested in being positive, sincere, and mutually sharing your authentic self. Here you can possibly make real connections and friendships beyond cyber space, despite all the cultural hoopla, stereotypes and trivial expectations.

Members: 433
Latest Activity: on Thursday

A message to all members . . .



What is this group really about?


This is a group for those interested in making realistic connections; friendships, relationships, commitments and otherwise with out regard to cultural aspects, languages or stereotypical physical appearances. This group is about coming together and learning about another individual for the person they truly are, and NOT necessarily purposely for their demographic or other obvious traits.


Primarily for those who don’t quite fit into a particular mold or any at all, are not as well known on the site, are very shy or discreet about their social interactions with others, not able to make social events to actually meet anyone (as yet), those who may be here out of curiosity alone, or have no said agenda. Feel free to share anything about yourself here; share what's on your mind.  This group is about being positive, sincere, and sharing your Authentic Self with others; not your cyber self. Here you can possibly make real connections and friendships beyond cyber space, despite all the cultural hoopla, stereotypes or trivial expectations. 


Regardless as to your physical appearance, gender, age, ethnicity, language, religious background, sexual orientation, education level, disability, socioeconomic status, national origin, etc., IT DOESN'T MATTER in this group; it's not about what you are, it's who you are, the person.


Getting to Know You is genuinely about people getting to know each other as realistically as possible in spite of the many partitions of communications; email, telephone, web cam, instant messenger, text, etc., which may not always reveal the genuine person you actually are.  This is a positive space to mutually understand and learn about our likes, dislikes, quirks, silliness, level of emotions, fears, hopes, sense of humor, dreams, desires, ambitions, issues, and or secrets, etc.  This group is about learning to communicate better with each other and completely supporting each member, in any way we can, by mutually expressing or giving support to each other.  Not exactly a touchy-feely group, but please feel free to share.


This is more about TIME and EFFORT versus IMMEDIATE JUDGMENTS; which can be incorrect.  It's possible to miss something good, great, even spectacular, especially, if never investing any time or effort.




Thank you so much for joining!


No need to be shy here.  Now, let’s get to know the real you . . .

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Comment by Jelly on September 9, 2015 at 8:16pm

Hi there! You can call me Jelly.

I'm 26 and I've been on this site for a bit without much success...hopefully someone can change that!

I enjoy making art, cooking, reading, listening to music, and dancing. Message me if you want to talk!

Comment by Shellyann on August 29, 2015 at 1:24pm
Is there anyone from canada Quebec Montreal?
Comment by Starfish on August 22, 2015 at 1:48am

Hello, My name is Grace.  I enjoy yoga, working out, hanging out at the beach, making jewelry and I'm in the medical industry.  I also like bowling.  Are there any bowlers here? :-)  Happy to join this group.

Comment by Andrew Chin on August 17, 2015 at 11:04am

Hello, I'm Andrew from Seattle, WA.  I'm into health and nutrition, meditation, spirituality, rock n' roll (including soul & R&B), and movies.  I'm glad to be a member on this site - it's quite the community!

Comment by LC on August 10, 2015 at 7:40am
Hi all, I'm pretty new here. Some of my favorite things are working out, visiting amusement parks, reading, and knitting. I'm a bit shy but I look forward to interacting with everyone.
Comment by Nina on August 9, 2015 at 11:09pm

Hey! I'm Nina, a student from Philly :) I love yoga, food, social activism, immersing myself in cultures, reading, and a lot of other things haha. I'm half Black & half Puerto Rican and I'm very proud of both sides :) It's so nice to see so many open people here.

Comment by Jessica on July 29, 2015 at 8:20pm

Hi.  I just joined this site.  I love music, movies, yoga, dancing, hiking, adventures and spontaneous trips.  I'm also working on becoming a better swimmer.

Comment by natuRAL on June 4, 2015 at 8:18am

Hi. I just joined this site. I currently live in Korea. My hobbies include reading, playing RPG games, hiking, salsa dancing and in general being active. I speak a little Korean, Japanese and Spanish (although my Spanish is not so good lol). Nice to meet everyone!

Comment by Curtis Young on March 17, 2015 at 8:30pm
Where you guys been all my life??? :))
Comment by Seod123 on March 5, 2015 at 10:20am

Hi everyone :)

My name is Raffaele, aka Rabzy123, and I'm 18 years old and live in London. I love anime, food (lol), learning about different cultures, and just meeting new people in general. I hope to make friends here :)


Members (432)


Our Mission (Tenative)


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***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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