Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Getting to Know You . . .


Getting to Know You . . .

For those interested in being positive, sincere, and mutually sharing your authentic self. Here you can possibly make real connections and friendships beyond cyber space, despite all the cultural hoopla, stereotypes and trivial expectations.

Members: 421
Latest Activity: yesterday

A message to all members . . .



What is this group really about?


This is a group for those interested in making realistic connections; friendships, relationships, commitments and otherwise with out regard to cultural aspects, languages or stereotypical physical appearances. This group is about coming together and learning about another individual for the person they truly are, and NOT necessarily purposely for their demographic or other obvious traits.


Primarily for those who don’t quite fit into a particular mold or any at all, are not as well known on the site, are very shy or discreet about their social interactions with others, not able to make social events to actually meet anyone (as yet), those who may be here out of curiosity alone, or have no said agenda. Feel free to share anything about yourself here; share what's on your mind.  This group is about being positive, sincere, and sharing your Authentic Self with others; not your cyber self. Here you can possibly make real connections and friendships beyond cyber space, despite all the cultural hoopla, stereotypes or trivial expectations. 


Regardless as to your physical appearance, gender, age, ethnicity, language, religious background, sexual orientation, education level, disability, socioeconomic status, national origin, etc., IT DOESN'T MATTER in this group; it's not about what you are, it's who you are, the person.


Getting to Know You is genuinely about people getting to know each other as realistically as possible in spite of the many partitions of communications; email, telephone, web cam, instant messenger, text, etc., which may not always reveal the genuine person you actually are.  This is a positive space to mutually understand and learn about our likes, dislikes, quirks, silliness, level of emotions, fears, hopes, sense of humor, dreams, desires, ambitions, issues, and or secrets, etc.  This group is about learning to communicate better with each other and completely supporting each member, in any way we can, by mutually expressing or giving support to each other.  Not exactly a touchy-feely group, but please feel free to share.


This is more about TIME and EFFORT versus IMMEDIATE JUDGMENTS; which can be incorrect.  It's possible to miss something good, great, even spectacular, especially, if never investing any time or effort.




Thank you so much for joining!


No need to be shy here.  Now, let’s get to know the real you . . .

Discussion Forum


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Three things about you (just for fun) . . .

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I Love Your Smile

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Comment by Rabzy123 yesterday

Hi everyone :)

My name is Raffaele, aka Rabzy123, and I'm 18 years old and live in London. I love anime, food (lol), learning about different cultures, and just meeting new people in general. I hope to make friends here :)

Comment by Karen A. on February 27, 2015 at 10:31pm

Ok, Martyrdom Loyalty, let's be friends. 

Comment by Martyrdom on February 27, 2015 at 5:56pm

@Karen A. Hello Karen, I am on your side. Stay courageous! No shame! Remember, this site is not only for young people. Let's fight against discrimination!

Comment by Erica reed on February 13, 2015 at 12:01pm
Hope everyone is having as a good day as I am happy valentines everyone
Comment by Warrior KM on February 13, 2015 at 9:45am

Hello, everyone. =)

My name is Kia and just peeping my head in this positive group. Everyone have an abundant, prosperous and healthy 2015 <3

Comment by Chauniece on December 24, 2014 at 6:05pm
Hello I'm new to this site I love to read and dance and I hope to make good friends on here
Comment by Demppu on December 24, 2014 at 8:19am

Hi, everyone!

My name is Rahima (aka. Demppu) and I'm eighteen years old from Finland. I became this webside because I want to get know to you and befriend with you.

Comment by Karen A. on December 1, 2014 at 12:42am

Hello, I am not shy, so, let me introduce myself.  

I am 53 and very happy about that fact.  I still love to dance and I don't mean ballroom!!!  I regularly ride my bicycle, power walk and have again started hip hop abs.

I have two daughters 22 and 20, a son 18, and a granddaughter r and I just love meeting the insane people on this site.  I do have to laugh though, the most interested parties are less than 1/2 my age.  That should be a compliment, but my oldest kid is youngest 18.  So,  I apologize in advance if that offends anyone, but even my son who initially though that was cool, backed up and changed his mind when I reminded him how close 26 and 27 are to their ages.

Friends, are most definitely welcome at any age!!! 

I am fun to hang out with, intelligent, and again....LOVE TO DANCE, KPOP is my current favorite genre mixed with new hip hop, r&b, etc.  I have an eclectic music taste oh, and a great sense of humor.  

Comment by Daniel on November 21, 2014 at 10:45pm

hello everyone

Comment by crystal on October 13, 2014 at 9:32am
Hello im crystal and I cant wait to get to know you all.

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***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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