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Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?


Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?

Now Here's something new to the table,

Half of us here have never gotten the chance to read or discuss about *why we have decided to join BWAM and also what it is that we personally find attractive in Black Women/Asian Men,

Please share your thoughts !

Real Talk.. :)

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Comment by Reni on March 24, 2015 at 7:44pm

I'm physically attracted to men with nice cheekbones and strong facial features. Sometimes I like beards. Sometimes long hair. Attractive (and unattractive) men come in all different colors, shapes and sizes. But, what's really attractive is demonstrating to me (through words, actions, etc.) that you recognize and understand that I'm more than my looks or what I can do for you sexually. Asian men just happen to be in the lead in terms of sapoisexuality so I'm just trying to ride that train until the wheels fall off.     

Comment by Rabzy123 on March 5, 2015 at 10:43am

It's kind of hard to explain, but I'll try. There's obviously a physical attraction to Black women, but it goes deeper than that. The ones I have met and know are all very pleasant, intelligent and articulate people. Of course, I don't wish to generalise. All the negative and crude stereotypes pitted against Black women are false, at least from my experience, I find it unfair how both Black women and Asian men are almost negatively portrayed and stereotyped.

Moreover, I've found that a lot of Black women take an sincere interest in Asian culture, and want to learn about it, which contrasts the often cultural appropriation of other people vis a vis Asian culture. 

BWAM relationships are rare, but they are definitely increasing. Within my own family, my mother is the result of a union between a Creole woman and a Chinese man, and a few of my uncles have married Black women. So they do happen :)

Comment by Doracuh on March 3, 2015 at 2:59pm
Honestly, my attraction to asian cultures, and all that jazz, cannot be explained. It is what it is and that's it
Comment by Erica reed on February 27, 2015 at 8:55pm
U can ramble all u want lol
Comment by eve on February 18, 2015 at 5:34am

Well, whenever I see an Asian man, I get goose bumps. yah. It's that serious. They are business minded, go getters, always calm and collected, geniuses when it comes to technology (did I just say that..) anyway, I love them. I want to settle down with one..someday..hopefully. I have a thing for Asian men that I cannot even explain. Thank you Admin for this site..My dreams are halfway answered

Comment by Erica reed on February 10, 2015 at 11:44am
I join this site because I've always had a curious attraction to Asian men, (i mean jus look at that fine Jet Li or Rain) and wondered if they dated blk women and where I live you dnt see to many Asian men my age
Comment by Alexis on January 20, 2015 at 8:56pm
Ive dated/talked to all types of guys. I was in a relationship for 3 years with an Asian guy.. well half. But I loved the relationship that we had. I felt cared for, respected and the most loved out of them all. Ever since I became involved in that relationshp I found a newfound love in Asian men.
Comment by Jessika on October 6, 2014 at 12:10pm
Why I like Asian man? At a very young tender age I found myself in deep fascination with JET LEE. OMG! From his almond small shape eyes, martial art skills yumm. Being young and dumb I did believe in the most popular Asian stereotype, so in college although the sensation for Asian man was there I never really approached them. then I discovery KDRAMA, KPOP, JDRAMA I said thank you sweet baby Jesus. It's okay to like who you like. Everybody else just get over it.
SIDENOTE: Have you ever herd an Asian guy with a deep voice OMG MY VIRGINA. ANY WAY.... Now being a 24yr old Haitian/American woman everyone knows I am attracted to Asian man although some of my friends don't understand why because of the many stereotype about Asian ( Which I no longer believe) I JESSIKA LOVE ASIAN MAN and I'm proud dammit!
Comment by Angel on September 27, 2014 at 9:23pm

I really can't explain. I don't have a particular type that I am into, but I do know that I am attracted to Asian men but I don't see a whole lot of AMBW parings .So ... when I can across  this website I thought It was great ! 

Comment by Tina Cauley on September 10, 2014 at 10:53am

 I am attractive to All Asian men of their features and their skills particularly in everything (& Im not being stereotype here lol--being real)---what cha see is what cha get--right?...but anyway, I know some of em comes in different walks of style...Some maybe be nerdy (genius behind technology) , some are warriors like (martial arts), some who is a foodie (chefs), some are business like Asian man, some are in the entertainment industry...acting, dancing but not enough in the singing industry in US...humm....they are like this non-stop sexy Asian man machine, but I figure its all a fantasy in my world because they would not have any interest in a black women but only towards Asians women or a white the case is that is not just that we need to step forward to be notice by speaking up with confidence.


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