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Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?


Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?

Now Here's something new to the table,

Half of us here have never gotten the chance to read or discuss about *why we have decided to join BWAM and also what it is that we personally find attractive in Black Women/Asian Men,

Please share your thoughts !

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Comment by Alexis on Wednesday
Ive dated/talked to all types of guys. I was in a relationship for 3 years with an Asian guy.. well half. But I loved the relationship that we had. I felt cared for, respected and the most loved out of them all. Ever since I became involved in that relationshp I found a newfound love in Asian men.
Comment by Jessika on October 6, 2014 at 12:10pm
Why I like Asian man? At a very young tender age I found myself in deep fascination with JET LEE. OMG! From his almond small shape eyes, martial art skills yumm. Being young and dumb I did believe in the most popular Asian stereotype, so in college although the sensation for Asian man was there I never really approached them. then I discovery KDRAMA, KPOP, JDRAMA I said thank you sweet baby Jesus. It's okay to like who you like. Everybody else just get over it.
SIDENOTE: Have you ever herd an Asian guy with a deep voice OMG MY VIRGINA. ANY WAY.... Now being a 24yr old Haitian/American woman everyone knows I am attracted to Asian man although some of my friends don't understand why because of the many stereotype about Asian ( Which I no longer believe) I JESSIKA LOVE ASIAN MAN and I'm proud dammit!
Comment by Angel on September 27, 2014 at 9:23pm

I really can't explain. I don't have a particular type that I am into, but I do know that I am attracted to Asian men but I don't see a whole lot of AMBW parings .So ... when I can across  this website I thought It was great ! 

Comment by Tina Cauley on September 10, 2014 at 10:53am

 I am attractive to All Asian men of their features and their skills particularly in everything (& Im not being stereotype here lol--being real)---what cha see is what cha get--right?...but anyway, I know some of em comes in different walks of style...Some maybe be nerdy (genius behind technology) , some are warriors like (martial arts), some who is a foodie (chefs), some are business like Asian man, some are in the entertainment industry...acting, dancing but not enough in the singing industry in US...humm....they are like this non-stop sexy Asian man machine, but I figure its all a fantasy in my world because they would not have any interest in a black women but only towards Asians women or a white the case is that is not just that we need to step forward to be notice by speaking up with confidence.

Comment by Lexi on August 25, 2014 at 11:51am

Personally when I was younger I had "types" but now as I'm older I don't really have a particular type. I guess I would say Asian men are more aesthetically pleasing to me but it really doesn't matter race just matters who you are as a person. I joined this site because I've heard numerous people tell me "Asian men don't like black girls" or "Asian men are too shy to date a black girl" and this site puts those claims to shame.

Comment by R.D. on August 21, 2014 at 12:40pm

To be honest, I don't know why. I've asked myself and have been asked. Generally, I'm not concerned with race. We're all human. However, I find myself more attracted to Asian men. There's this whole smile + eye combination and subtle confidence that attracts me.

Comment by Rad Taka on June 28, 2014 at 3:47pm

It just makes sense that there's a site like this. Though it's in some ways a surprising pairing, there's a powerful chemistry there. There's the common challenge that in the f*cked up racial landscape of this country we've both had really demeaning stereotypes laid on us. What does that really mean when we get together? I'm not sure. But one thing I've noticed and liked in black women I've known is being really open about appreciating a guy's beauty, I think other women tend to be a lot less in touch with that. As an Asian guy I get tired of being stereotyped as less "manly" because of the way I look, and I think black women for some reason see me without those messed-up cultural goggles.

Comment by Taino on June 3, 2014 at 8:09pm
Nubian Women gave birth to the Brown, Red, Yellow and White. Consciously everyone have love for the Nubian women on some level.

That being said I have never dated Asian women, why I'm not sure just never happened.

I went from white girls to Latina ladies to mulatto women up into high school, Then in high school I had what I consider my first pure black women happened to be Latina but had all the right weaponry. African features from head to toe. That is that......

What I was doing at the time was very abstract to everyone else. My white Asian Hispanic and black friends normally dated within the ethnic group. Besides myself and one black friend that only dated white women. To each his own i guess......

Comment by Jacqueline on June 3, 2014 at 11:07am

I've always just liked Asian men, culturally there are a lot of similarities when it come to my background and culture. I've always just been attracted. not to say I don't find black men, or Latino men attractive as well. I'm here hoping to make a connection with Asian men though, either friendship or more.

sometimes we just don't know why we like something. we just do.

Comment by ak on June 3, 2014 at 3:13am
Previous and current girlfriends are black women and have found the differences betweenbetween their cultural outlook and the outlook of many women I've known to be very appealing. Many women I've known, it isn't at all clear if they are spending time with me because they like me or because I'm available at the time.

At least with these two women, it was clear early on that it was me - having fewer unknowns and less guessing and less of the confusion and miscommunication and non-communication were all wonderful differences from my time with women from other cultural traditions.

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