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Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?


Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?

Now Here's something new to the table,

Half of us here have never gotten the chance to read or discuss about *why we have decided to join BWAM and also what it is that we personally find attractive in Black Women/Asian Men,

Please share your thoughts !

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Comment by Jay on May 1, 2017 at 12:45pm

So ladies what attracted or interested you in Asian men, and guys what attracted or interested you in us Black women. I know for me it all started with my love and passion for Kpop/Kdramas and it went on from there.

Comment by V...Catchy Cool Username on May 28, 2016 at 4:42am

I don't reason it because it gets pretty stereotypical once you start applying attributes...we are here to learn that we aren't much different, we are all ultimately individuals and in the end, that matters most.  

What i find is that there are two types of people when it comes to IR dating or just relations in general.  The type that thinks and talks about race as if stereotypes were true, still asking questions like "are asian guys into black girls," or statements like "Koreans are always...(add stereotype)".  And the other more mature, experienced, and advanced person who sees through all these labels and myths and looks for the person behind all the illusions we are sold on race and culture.  

Comment by Rashika on March 11, 2016 at 6:51pm
I have never thought deeply about why i am attracted to asian men. I have just found them attractive for as long as i can remember. I remember having a crush on an asian kid in middle school. We were in a school play together. We loved the same music, movies , activities etc. One day he handed me a note. The note said i really like you but my parents said i am only allowed to date korean or white girls.My heart sank. I understand that we were both children and that was one life experience. Despite knowing all that , i still have trouble believing that a meaniful relationship can take place between an asian man and a black women.I hope one day i can find someone to prove my theory wrong.
Comment by Kang H on December 24, 2015 at 7:09am
When I worked at the fish market in Crenshaw, women would ask me out, flirt, or hit on me almost everyday. Being young and focused on the business I never took anyone seriously. I thought the females were messing with me just having fun. As the years went by and dropping my ex I was always curious. I am absolutely attracted to black women. We sold the fish market recently and I know I'll miss the community but I'll miss the women the most. I regret not flirting back and making more of an initiative.
The black women I've met are beautiful in mind, body and soul. They are reverent, honest, and thrifty. Loyalty lies in their hearts. They are the most courageous women on the planet next to all mothers.
Comment by Nika Ra on December 2, 2015 at 12:37am
Asian men are business oriented and intelligent. Black women are the same so it simply makes sense for we as black women to date Asian men. That's simple math.
Comment by Hi I'm Paris! on November 16, 2015 at 8:50am
I have always felt a connection to the Asian culture just never met one to have an open discussion with. I see beauty, brilliance and highly educated Asian people and I'm interested in really getting to know the Asian culture and one for myself!
Comment by J.Boogyy on November 8, 2015 at 2:39pm
I've loved asian guys for as long as I can remember. Since elementary school my crushes have always been the asian guys but somehow I always became best friends with them, on going into high school. It's always been the culture, the food is bomb lol, they're beautiful and were always by my side for every family event. I used to be so territorial of my guys lmao..I started learning to speak Khmer so I can communicate w.them and nobody knew what we were saying haha..but never continued. My bro and sis's are "blackbodian" so the saga of being intrigued continues lol
Comment by Afro2 on September 30, 2015 at 10:14pm

Asian Men are simply Sexy. 

Comment by K. Brown on September 24, 2015 at 12:22am

Hi everyone, I have always had an attraction to Asian men but only recently found that Asian men would even have an attraction to black women. I think it's fantastic and I think it's a lot that we can teach each other and show each other. I think that we have a lot of interest that are in common and a lot of differences to learn about which should keep the relationship fresh and always evolving. With the right guy I am more than willing to give it a try.

Comment by Pauline M on May 5, 2015 at 12:06pm

Being in love with an idea and actually experiencing are two different thing. I haven't had the chance to date an Asian so I have this idea that I would very much like to sort out. Why? The things I hold at my core, Honor, love, respect loyalty, compassion, strength, tenderness, discipline, hard work, drive, intelligence, innovation, honesty, family, venerability and  a strong sense of culture tend to be embodied in the Asian culture. I know, this can be found in any culture but there is one tiny thing that tips the scale, attraction. I can explain it but Asians do something to me. I swear I think I was an Asian in my past life. :-) As primitive as it sounds, I cant help what I an attracted to. I see nothing but  sexy beauty. go figure :-)


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