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Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?


Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?

Now Here's something new to the table,

Half of us here have never gotten the chance to read or discuss about *why we have decided to join BWAM and also what it is that we personally find attractive in Black Women/Asian Men,

Please share your thoughts !

Real Talk.. :)

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Comment by Rashika B Stephens on March 11, 2016 at 6:51pm
I have never thought deeply about why i am attracted to asian men. I have just found them attractive for as long as i can remember. I remember having a crush on an asian kid in middle school. We were in a school play together. We loved the same music, movies , activities etc. One day he handed me a note. The note said i really like you but my parents said i am only allowed to date korean or white girls.My heart sank. I understand that we were both children and that was one life experience. Despite knowing all that , i still have trouble believing that a meaniful relationship can take place between an asian man and a black women.I hope one day i can find someone to prove my theory wrong.
Comment by Kang H on December 24, 2015 at 7:09am
When I worked at the fish market in Crenshaw, women would ask me out, flirt, or hit on me almost everyday. Being young and focused on the business I never took anyone seriously. I thought the females were messing with me just having fun. As the years went by and dropping my ex I was always curious. I am absolutely attracted to black women. We sold the fish market recently and I know I'll miss the community but I'll miss the women the most. I regret not flirting back and making more of an initiative.
The black women I've met are beautiful in mind, body and soul. They are reverent, honest, and thrifty. Loyalty lies in their hearts. They are the most courageous women on the planet next to all mothers.
Comment by Nika Ra on December 2, 2015 at 12:37am
Asian men are business oriented and intelligent. Black women are the same so it simply makes sense for we as black women to date Asian men. That's simple math.
Comment by Hi I'm Paris! on November 16, 2015 at 8:50am
I have always felt a connection to the Asian culture just never met one to have an open discussion with. I see beauty, brilliance and highly educated Asian people and I'm interested in really getting to know the Asian culture and one for myself!
Comment by J.Boogyy on November 8, 2015 at 2:39pm
I've loved asian guys for as long as I can remember. Since elementary school my crushes have always been the asian guys but somehow I always became best friends with them, on going into high school. It's always been the culture, the food is bomb lol, they're beautiful and were always by my side for every family event. I used to be so territorial of my guys lmao..I started learning to speak Khmer so I can communicate w.them and nobody knew what we were saying haha..but never continued. My bro and sis's are "blackbodian" so the saga of being intrigued continues lol
Comment by Afro2 on September 30, 2015 at 10:14pm

Asian Men are simply Sexy. 

Comment by K. Brown on September 24, 2015 at 12:22am

Hi everyone, I have always had an attraction to Asian men but only recently found that Asian men would even have an attraction to black women. I think it's fantastic and I think it's a lot that we can teach each other and show each other. I think that we have a lot of interest that are in common and a lot of differences to learn about which should keep the relationship fresh and always evolving. With the right guy I am more than willing to give it a try.

Comment by Pauline M on May 5, 2015 at 12:06pm

Being in love with an idea and actually experiencing are two different thing. I haven't had the chance to date an Asian so I have this idea that I would very much like to sort out. Why? The things I hold at my core, Honor, love, respect loyalty, compassion, strength, tenderness, discipline, hard work, drive, intelligence, innovation, honesty, family, venerability and  a strong sense of culture tend to be embodied in the Asian culture. I know, this can be found in any culture but there is one tiny thing that tips the scale, attraction. I can explain it but Asians do something to me. I swear I think I was an Asian in my past life. :-) As primitive as it sounds, I cant help what I an attracted to. I see nothing but  sexy beauty. go figure :-)

Comment by carita allen on May 4, 2015 at 7:25pm

I am attracted to men of all races but most of all I have always wanted to date an Asian man.  When ever I was attracted to one in particular I was always told Asian men NEVER date Black women and of course all the stereotypes that go with them. I never had the confidence to talk to an Asian guy as far as like dating was concerned.  I also feel that most times Asian's especially the women are so fetishized and I don't want to fall into that trap.  I am glad to see so many women (especailly Black women) open to date different ethnicities.  I think Asain men by far "For Real"  are the most beautiful men I have ever seen. I will definity settle down with and marry and Asian man in a heart beat.


Comment by Nija on May 4, 2015 at 5:42pm

To be perfectly honest Ive dated a black guy, white guy and two asian guys in my life, so I wouldnt say that there is a certain feature that Asian guys have or anything, I just like a great man.  But as far as values go, growing up in a Martial Arts community (2nd dan in TKD) I grew up around mostly asian and blacks and then in school only white.  I grew up loving Korean and Japanese culture because I studied Karate and TKD.  So my first crush was Korean, and my very first boyfriend was too. I find that the values instilled within these cultures and the martial arts that mirror each culture is what attracts me to these men.  I am currently studying in Japan for the summer so I am also seeing the differences between Japanese american culture and Japanese culture as well.  I love the familial values that have been passed down and the chilvary in both Korean and Japanese culture is amazing, not to mention im an Anime nerd and Japanese car nerd so I guess most of the people in those forums are asian men which attract me. 


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