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Slow Jams

For those who loved slow jams, most notably from the 70s-90s.

Members: 36
Latest Activity: Sep 14, 2017

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What is the most deadliest but greatest heartbreak slow jam of all time?

Started by James. Last reply by Kiki Sep 14, 2017. 5 Replies

For me?Doin just fine by Boyz II Men Continue

Let's Chill by GUY

Started by James Mar 20, 2017. 0 Replies



Started by James Jan 14, 2017. 0 Replies got this on repeat... I really love this melancholy 90s vibe.... real good song!New Edition…Continue

Rockie Robbins?

Started by T. C. (Tony) Dec 13, 2016. 0 Replies

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Comment by James on March 20, 2017 at 4:01pm

Post 5 slow jams you're playing constantly...


Comment by James on January 3, 2017 at 12:32am

Michelle -- niiice.... here's mine:
1 - Selena - Dreaming of you
2 - It might be you - Stephen Bishop
3 - Closer than Friends - Surface
4 - Madonna - Crazy for you
5 - Will you still love me - Chicago

These 5 songs are different because I been talking to someone who loves these songs... so I been putting my ear to these recently frequently!

Comment by michelle on December 29, 2016 at 1:23am

Levert Written all over your face
Deborah Cox Where do we go from here
Lauryn hill When hurts so bad
Babyface When can i see you again
Boys II Men Uhh Ahh

Comment by James on December 29, 2016 at 12:46am

5 songs in your current playlist right now... GO!

Comment by James on December 16, 2016 at 1:08am

@Anna - New Edition, Jodeci, After 7, Tony Toni Tone, -- I like a lot of musicians, but I'm all about the songs ... the 80s and 90s slow jams especially!

Comment by Anna T. on December 10, 2016 at 7:25am
@James - What other musicians u like?
Comment by Anna T. on December 10, 2016 at 7:18am
@James - The reason the music has become so bad, let's be honest, black males DEgenerated the genre. Black females played a small role too but it started with black males in the late 80's who began to glorify selling dope, calling women b*tches and h*es and perpetuating violence. R&b is DEAD and rap music has become a monstrous corporate machine now.
Comment by James on December 8, 2016 at 10:46pm

@Anna -- The oldies is all you really need to hear - havent you notice no one makes slow jams today? You see how wack the music execs are today - all they care about are the same garbage artists today.. beyonce, rhianna, etc. etc. they dont even make slow jams.. its all visual sexualization ... its tiring.  -- You displayed the good stuff so Im happy to see you know whatsup!

Kristyn - girl you're missing ... go to youtube and watch the IF YOU GO AWAY music video ... i guarantee youll like it...

Comment by Kristyn on December 8, 2016 at 6:50am
@Anna- I agree. Those eras have wonderful music.

@James- I've never heard of the second New Kids on the Block song, but I LOVE Please Don't Go Girl. When I first heard the song, I thought New Edition was singing. I was close as the guy working with NKOTB was the same one who worked with NE.

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