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Slow Jams

For those who loved slow jams, most notably from the 70s-90s.

Members: 36
Latest Activity: Sep 14, 2017

Discussion Forum

What is the most deadliest but greatest heartbreak slow jam of all time?

Started by James. Last reply by Kiki Sep 14, 2017. 5 Replies

For me?Doin just fine by Boyz II Men Continue

Let's Chill by GUY

Started by James Mar 20, 2017. 0 Replies



Started by James Jan 14, 2017. 0 Replies got this on repeat... I really love this melancholy 90s vibe.... real good song!New Edition…Continue

Rockie Robbins?

Started by T. C. (Tony) Dec 13, 2016. 0 Replies

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Comment by Anna T. on December 8, 2016 at 12:39am
All I listen to is slow jams, mostly oldies though lol. Johnny gill, toni braxton, isely bros. 70's -90's was a good time for music!
Comment by James on July 8, 2016 at 12:23am


Which song is better:

"Please Don't Go Girl" or "If You Go Away"

Comment by James on June 16, 2016 at 10:59pm

@kristyn - how in the world do you forget the 2 biggest groups in R&B... their music is unforgettable.. + their discography is ginormous! 

Comment by Kristyn on June 15, 2016 at 9:11pm
@ James - I LOVED Jodeci and New Edition! Can't believe I forgot about them.

@ Marie - Thanks! :-) Some of that music was so foundational to today's music. I like the soul coming out of the U.K., but hate that the old soul sound is not as widely performed by American artists.
Comment by Marie on June 15, 2016 at 4:43am
Yesss, kristyn. I agree. Real music.
Comment by James on June 14, 2016 at 10:57am

But I like most of what you put Kristyn so Im with you :)

Comment by James on June 14, 2016 at 10:56am

New Edition, Jodeci was my main group for the 90s... for the 80s, I had a ton that i loved.... 

Comment by Kristyn on June 14, 2016 at 5:44am
SWV was good- I especially loved "Rain" & "Downtown." I love so many artists and genres of music- the lyrics usually reel me in. Although I don't like every song by an artist, I do like many of the slow jams of: Mint Condition, Tony, Toni, Tone, the O'Jays, Isleys, Eugene Wilde, Freddie Jackson, Michael Jackson, Luther, Al B. Sure!, LTD, Loose Ends, Marvin Gaye, Vesta, Jon B., John Legend, Angela & Rene, Atlantic Star, & Chaka Khan.
Comment by Kiyota on June 13, 2016 at 11:51pm
My group was SWV

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