Black Women Asian Men United

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Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?


Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?

Now Here's something new to the table,

Half of us here have never gotten the chance to read or discuss about *why we have decided to join BWAM and also what it is that we personally find attractive in Black Women/Asian Men,

Please share your thoughts !

Real Talk.. :)

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Comment by carita allen on May 4, 2015 at 7:25pm

I am attracted to men of all races but most of all I have always wanted to date an Asian man.  When ever I was attracted to one in particular I was always told Asian men NEVER date Black women and of course all the stereotypes that go with them. I never had the confidence to talk to an Asian guy as far as like dating was concerned.  I also feel that most times Asian's especially the women are so fetishized and I don't want to fall into that trap.  I am glad to see so many women (especailly Black women) open to date different ethnicities.  I think Asain men by far "For Real"  are the most beautiful men I have ever seen. I will definity settle down with and marry and Asian man in a heart beat.


Comment by Nija on May 4, 2015 at 5:42pm

To be perfectly honest Ive dated a black guy, white guy and two asian guys in my life, so I wouldnt say that there is a certain feature that Asian guys have or anything, I just like a great man.  But as far as values go, growing up in a Martial Arts community (2nd dan in TKD) I grew up around mostly asian and blacks and then in school only white.  I grew up loving Korean and Japanese culture because I studied Karate and TKD.  So my first crush was Korean, and my very first boyfriend was too. I find that the values instilled within these cultures and the martial arts that mirror each culture is what attracts me to these men.  I am currently studying in Japan for the summer so I am also seeing the differences between Japanese american culture and Japanese culture as well.  I love the familial values that have been passed down and the chilvary in both Korean and Japanese culture is amazing, not to mention im an Anime nerd and Japanese car nerd so I guess most of the people in those forums are asian men which attract me. 

Comment by Seod123 on March 5, 2015 at 10:43am

It's kind of hard to explain, but I'll try. There's obviously a physical attraction to Black women, but it goes deeper than that. The ones I have met and know are all very pleasant, intelligent and articulate people. Of course, I don't wish to generalise. All the negative and crude stereotypes pitted against Black women are false, at least from my experience, I find it unfair how both Black women and Asian men are almost negatively portrayed and stereotyped.

Moreover, I've found that a lot of Black women take an sincere interest in Asian culture, and want to learn about it, which contrasts the often cultural appropriation of other people vis a vis Asian culture. 

BWAM relationships are rare, but they are definitely increasing. Within my own family, my mother is the result of a union between a Creole woman and a Chinese man, and a few of my uncles have married Black women. So they do happen :)

Comment by Doracuh on March 3, 2015 at 2:59pm
Honestly, my attraction to asian cultures, and all that jazz, cannot be explained. It is what it is and that's it
Comment by Erica reed on February 27, 2015 at 8:55pm
U can ramble all u want lol
Comment by eve on February 18, 2015 at 5:34am

Well, whenever I see an Asian man, I get goose bumps. yah. It's that serious. They are business minded, go getters, always calm and collected, geniuses when it comes to technology (did I just say that..) anyway, I love them. I want to settle down with one..someday..hopefully. I have a thing for Asian men that I cannot even explain. Thank you Admin for this site..My dreams are halfway answered

Comment by Erica reed on February 10, 2015 at 11:44am
I join this site because I've always had a curious attraction to Asian men, (i mean jus look at that fine Jet Li or Rain) and wondered if they dated blk women and where I live you dnt see to many Asian men my age
Comment by Tina Cauley on September 10, 2014 at 10:53am

 I am attractive to All Asian men of their features and their skills particularly in everything (& Im not being stereotype here lol--being real)---what cha see is what cha get--right?...but anyway, I know some of em comes in different walks of style...Some maybe be nerdy (genius behind technology) , some are warriors like (martial arts), some who is a foodie (chefs), some are business like Asian man, some are in the entertainment industry...acting, dancing but not enough in the singing industry in US...humm....they are like this non-stop sexy Asian man machine, but I figure its all a fantasy in my world because they would not have any interest in a black women but only towards Asians women or a white the case is that is not just that we need to step forward to be notice by speaking up with confidence.

Comment by Lexi on August 25, 2014 at 11:51am

Personally when I was younger I had "types" but now as I'm older I don't really have a particular type. I guess I would say Asian men are more aesthetically pleasing to me but it really doesn't matter race just matters who you are as a person. I joined this site because I've heard numerous people tell me "Asian men don't like black girls" or "Asian men are too shy to date a black girl" and this site puts those claims to shame.

Comment by Rad Taka on June 28, 2014 at 3:47pm

It just makes sense that there's a site like this. Though it's in some ways a surprising pairing, there's a powerful chemistry there. There's the common challenge that in the f*cked up racial landscape of this country we've both had really demeaning stereotypes laid on us. What does that really mean when we get together? I'm not sure. But one thing I've noticed and liked in black women I've known is being really open about appreciating a guy's beauty, I think other women tend to be a lot less in touch with that. As an Asian guy I get tired of being stereotyped as less "manly" because of the way I look, and I think black women for some reason see me without those messed-up cultural goggles.


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