Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?


Why Black Women? Why Asian Men?

Now Here's something new to the table,

Half of us here have never gotten the chance to read or discuss about *why we have decided to join BWAM and also what it is that we personally find attractive in Black Women/Asian Men,

Please share your thoughts !

Real Talk.. :)

Members: 117
Latest Activity: Jan 10

Discussion Forum

This group does not have any discussions yet.

Comment Wall


You need to be a member of Why Black Women? Why Asian Men? to add comments!

Comment by Taino on June 3, 2014 at 8:09pm
Nubian Women gave birth to the Brown, Red, Yellow and White. Consciously everyone have love for the Nubian women on some level.

That being said I have never dated Asian women, why I'm not sure just never happened.

I went from white girls to Latina ladies to mulatto women up into high school, Then in high school I had what I consider my first pure black women happened to be Latina but had all the right weaponry. African features from head to toe. That is that......

What I was doing at the time was very abstract to everyone else. My white Asian Hispanic and black friends normally dated within the ethnic group. Besides myself and one black friend that only dated white women. To each his own i guess......

Comment by Jacqueline on June 3, 2014 at 11:07am

I've always just liked Asian men, culturally there are a lot of similarities when it come to my background and culture. I've always just been attracted. not to say I don't find black men, or Latino men attractive as well. I'm here hoping to make a connection with Asian men though, either friendship or more.

sometimes we just don't know why we like something. we just do.

Comment by ak on June 3, 2014 at 3:13am
Previous and current girlfriends are black women and have found the differences betweenbetween their cultural outlook and the outlook of many women I've known to be very appealing. Many women I've known, it isn't at all clear if they are spending time with me because they like me or because I'm available at the time.

At least with these two women, it was clear early on that it was me - having fewer unknowns and less guessing and less of the confusion and miscommunication and non-communication were all wonderful differences from my time with women from other cultural traditions.
Comment by Karen on May 28, 2014 at 3:31am
Scratch that I rolled out of the womb liking Asian guys... I've always just likes them I like the way the look and talk and ugfff. They are just lovely
Comment by Karen on May 28, 2014 at 3:27am
I've always like Asian guys since i was 6 years young... but haven't found one that hasn't friend zoned me... The battle continues lol ^.^
Comment by Latoya Angus on May 26, 2014 at 10:20am

I think Asian men are the finest and hottest men alive. I love the fact that they are so family oriented.  

Comment by llexyy on May 21, 2014 at 9:57pm
I think Asian men are hot. I have always throught they were hot. It is..what it is. This is who I am.
Comment by Melissa on May 21, 2014 at 9:32pm

As a resident of NY, I would say interracial dating is a norm. It's a Small piece of the melting pot that formed the US. So Why Asian Men? I automatically love their culture and diverse view on many things. Working down town in Manhattan, I worked with many but it never blossomed further than that. And I wonder why because I obviously had crushes on the Men and Women alike. In college, I had a few acquaintances but never more. And I reevaluated the situation and it was because of the many stereotypes put out there in the World about Asian men. In which, I'm sure a lot of Asians may have run into that with Black Women too. So after seeing My younger cousin whose boyfriend is Japanese, who is cool and kind and very supportive and patient. And after having conversations with him and her about the obstacles they may face, I explain to them why I never ever approached any of the Asian men I crushed on......Mainly because I'm a shy individual. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I started dating and not really thinking about Race but more the individual themselves. But I did want to see others who are also in support of interracial relationships. So I joined a group on FB in which Lead me to this site. And So Far, Yes You run into those who think being with an Asian man is a Fetish and Vice Versa and Some Genuine people who are looking for friends and possibly more. 

So Why Asian Men, because they are grounded individuals, guided by strong values and beliefs. They are very open minded, hardworking individuals, who are just as fun to be around like any other race!! They are Themselves!!!

Comment by V...Catchy Cool Username on May 21, 2014 at 6:53pm

Why, I really don't know why, but I accept it as is.  I started this site and unified the old groups that are now weak and gone.  The mission developed has the focal point of interaction and experience as its main focus because when people first enter this realm of dating they come with a lot of false stereotypes and assumptions.  There is a myth that everyone here plays into assuming tradition, culture, and morality that is above board when it comes to Asian men, and a lot of negative ones associated with the Black Community.  The point is to break those stereotypes and assumptions through interaction, real interaction which brings more experience with people in a human setting.  Real interactions that has both it's positive and negative consequences.  

I've dated black women forever.  It was difficult at first because I to had a nascent understanding of it all.  When it comes down to it, if you like someone, it's because who they are as an individual.  Culture, race, tradition, are just clothing and used to boast an identity but is not the real person inside.  Once you get past all the sizzle, you realize the steak is based on true individual beliefs and philosophy that each person has, and everything else are just excuses, reasoning, and bs to cover up for a weaker psychological and inner spiritual understanding of self and others.  

We are fundamentally dealing with people, humans, and who they are inside.  This is the highest level of socialization, when you really get to know others and in the midst of all this process of intermingling, getting to know yourself and sharpening your own maturity and view of yourself and the live we all share.  

Comment by Queen ija on May 21, 2014 at 6:18pm

Why I like Asian men? Because I want me a black and Asian baby. lol That's not the only reason. I love their morals, family and educational value, and they aresexy as hell. Not to forget true gentlemen. On top of that, most of them are freaks lol. I know not every Asian guy is the same as it  regards to other races. Forget the stereotypes and let me learn ya. I'm not going by my own guess because ya'll are to mysterious, and I'm not going by everyone else's opinion of you. It seems that Asian males where I live are too afraid to approach a black female. I've always been attracted to the mysterious type. The catch. I guess that could get me in trouble right. So I'm trying something different. Coming somewhere where they are just as interested in Black females and feel comfortable enough to approach me. I don't care what race, just because I love ya'll I'm not a trophy, someone that can turn you out and you can say you've dated a black girl and now you love the mess out of them. I'm a sophisticate, humorous, spontaneous and talented female looking for an Asian man that can respect me for all that I am. Point, blank period.


Members (117)


Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




 If you would like to see certain changes or want to try out to be an admin...write out in bullet text what can be changed, policies, and or site enhancements.  Then write a short essay on what you think the site mission is and how we get there.



© 2018   Created by V...Catchy Cool Username.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service