What are you looking for on this site? Be specific about your motive/purpose, in terms of what you want to look for, in one or two sentences, even if you're unsure of / new to this. Explain at your best.
Getting to know other interesting & openminded individuals.
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
I want to experience the site first!
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
Doesn't bother me at all! The "Wise" part is the most important thing to keep in mind, right? :)
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HEY' I'M V, THE CREATOR OF THIS SITE, I AM NOT A BOT OR LIKE TOM OFF OF MYSPACE... I AM A LIVING HUMAN BEING...ANYWAYS, I AM GOING TO GIVE YOU "THE SPEECH" ANYWAYS...LOL
THE NEXT PARTY I THROW WILL BE ON JULY 31ST AT MY HOUSE IN MARYLAND. IT'S A "PAJAMA" PARTY. GO TO THE EVENTS PAGE TO FOR ALL THE DETAILS!!! HOPE TO SEE YOU THERE!!! If you live far, there is probably a carpool to Maryland, so check and ask around.
Welcome to the site, hit the chatroom, discuss, join groups you support, and be a real active participant or I am booting you, lol. I expect greatness from you, just be yourself and express it, and we're good. THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING TO DO HERE. Welcome again, Have a good time! Welcome new and "friend" old people alike - don't slouch here- go on everyone's page and write on their walls! :) [iF YOU don't make your presence known, you will not get noticed. Get in that chatroom and make them know you. Go meet the people, cut in thier conversation and INTRODUCE YOURSELF in a forceful way -while peeking at their webcam, and they will accept you-Don't play the walls!) IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU TRY THE CHATROOM OUT AND SURVIVE THE PROCESS! GET IT DONE EARLY!
(At this time, the site is in constant threat of closing down.)
As members, it is our duty to fund our own site so we will not have a threat of it taken away from us. As of current, we are asking all members to donate. Right now, we are asking that you submit $12 a year if you are 21 and over, and $6 a year if you are 20 and under. New members will be given a grace period of two weeks to see if this is a fit for them. Remember, we are stronger than just friends and family...we are a close knit movemnt.
And...if you have any questions or if you feel like cussing someone out because you need it out your system... my inbox is always open to you.
***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.
***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)
***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.
***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.
*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed highly...as if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.
****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to. You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you. Be accountable, don't play victim all the time. These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles. Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue. Grow up.
***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!
If you would like to see certain changes or want to try out to be an admin...write out in bullet text what can be changed, policies, and or site enhancements. Then write a short essay on what you think the site mission is and how we get there.