"Today is April 25. I am with Wu Kan Lin. If you are in the New York area, we should meet for a big group coffee and plan for the summer. I didnt get in this group just to chitchat on the internet. Anyone?"
"I am hoping ultimately for a committed companion or marriage eventually since I am waaaaaay over 30. I would however be happy with an open minded bff....EVERYTHING starts with friends. Let's get offline and DO something in NYC!!"
"Years ago, a Chinese guy and two Japanese guys, but then moved to a town outside of New York where the Asians were Vietnamese and wanted nothing to do with black people. None of the relationships ever involved anything physical, but lots of long…"
What are you looking for on this site? Be specific about your motive/purpose, in terms of what you want to look for, in one or two sentences, even if you're unsure of / new to this. Explain at your best.
Friends to hang out with and do things together with
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
Thw only Asians I know are married, but I will do what is asked if I can.
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
Hours of humor and the chance to get in some heated debates!
***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.
***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)
***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.
***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.
*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed highly...as if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.
****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to. You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you. Be accountable, don't play victim all the time. These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles. Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue. Grow up.
***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!
If you would like to see certain changes or want to try out to be an admin...write out in bullet text what can be changed, policies, and or site enhancements. Then write a short essay on what you think the site mission is and how we get there.