Black Women Asian Men United

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What are you looking for on this site? Be specific about your motive/purpose, in terms of what you want to look for, in one or two sentences, even if you're unsure of / new to this. Explain at your best.
A real woman. Someone that values communication, and honesty. A real heart and mind that I can come home to someday.
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
Most of my friends are already married or in relationships...
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
I don't care. He's not paying my bills.
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Basic info:

I live in Austin Texas

I'm Filipino, first generation.  We came here when I was five.  I finally received my US citizenship when I was 16.  I'm 33 now.

I really like 80's music, some karaoke but I'm not great at it.  I'm sure that's sort of the point ^_^  I like things both silly and serious.

I'm a Pisces and an Iron Monkey. (west/east zodiac signs)  I don't really care much for signs, because I like to get to know people individually.

In my younger life I was a US Marine, and I'm a calm ordered person.  I prefer being fun, peaceful and observant.  Get to know me, and you'll probably find I'm not what you expect.  I have more stuffed toy animals than weapons, and I prefer hugs over hurts.

I cook, pretty much all types of food.  I like to write, read, run, and workout.

The most interesting things to me are exploring what people have behind their eyes.  

I also really enjoy thought provoking films, good music, and all out happy childlike fun.  I don't watch TV, just a few select shows recommended by friends.

Reach out, get to know me.  I'd like to get a chance to know you.

---oh yeah, I'm also on tumblr (skitterabout)

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In the place between beats, and heart-beats.

Posted on December 1, 2013 at 8:34pm 0 Comments



I’ve been off the site for a bit, but I figured I’d put a little something down before I get back to my holiday grind.  The link above is something I came across today on tumblr.  I think it will become my free-association background music.  As I write, as I think about the salient points of the season.


We spend our time on those things…


A little time to think...

Posted on October 25, 2013 at 11:30pm 0 Comments

I've taken some time off from this space because sometimes life gets in the way.  Work stuff mainly, and thinking a lot.  Autumn is my favorite season.  I usually take a week of to fast.  I see it as my yearly mental detox where I get to focus on my life at different layers.  Personal, professional, spiritual and all points in between....

More on that later....

Adventures in "passing"

Posted on September 30, 2013 at 11:19pm 4 Comments

A few folks asked if I was East Indian.  I've never gotten that one before but I'll add that to my list ^_^  

Most people don't know what I am, and I often use it to my advantage.  I like to cloak and exist like a fly on the wall.  It gives me a better view of peoples assumptions.  I've passed as so many different things, but people only really see me as Filipino when I'm with my mom.  All of the sudden, they "see" it, and it's like I just stepped out of an MC Escher…


Thoughts from a dream, and main room chat.

Posted on September 22, 2013 at 11:12pm 3 Comments

Race does matter, but there is so much more to say about how we get our messages about race.  How we are represented in media, and how we interact with each other needs a little focus.

All the non-verbal things we do mean more than just the things we say.  I actually woke up from a dream today where I was pondering all this at length.  Coming out of the dream, I thought of the following four states:

Pre-contact, contact, non-contact, and post-contact.

I know, race…


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At 12:50pm on May 1, 2017, Jay said…

Hey I really like you bio and think you're a really nice guy.

At 4:40am on September 25, 2013, Education Pilgrimage said…

Hello, I like the content of your profile. I thought you are an East Indian. Are you really a Filipino?


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