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Golden Jaye
  • Female
  • Long Beach, CA
  • United States

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Daniel Won left a comment for Golden Jaye
"Wow are you absolutely gorgeous ahaha"
Apr 4
Daniel Won and Golden Jaye are now friends
Apr 4
Golden Jaye is now friends with Thil Perera, alan patter, Kissinger and 3 more
Mar 15
bolo liked Golden Jaye's photo
Feb 24
Golden Jaye joined Ebony Symone's group


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Nov 9, 2015
Golden Jaye and Chris are now friends
Nov 8, 2015
Golden Jaye is now friends with Ed and letisha ashton
Sep 4, 2015
Golden Jaye is now friends with Ming, Dave and timo
Feb 27, 2014
Mandy left a comment for Golden Jaye
"Heeeeey! I came across your page and got excited! haha :)"
Jan 29, 2014
Golden Jaye posted a status
"After all these years the site has changed but still the same lol"
Jan 29, 2014
Golden Jaye and Mandy are now friends
Jan 29, 2014
Golden Jaye and put are now friends
Jul 25, 2013
Golden Jaye and LA_Inkfiend are now friends
Jun 5, 2013
Golden Jaye and Frank are now friends
Jun 3, 2013
Golden Jaye posted a status
"ok LA Who wants to be my tour guide?!"
May 28, 2013
Golden Jaye posted a status
"Last day in the D! I'm 4eva a Detroit Lady"
May 27, 2013

Golden Jaye's Friends

  • Trung
  • Daniel Won
  • Jayson Kim
  • soju
  • alan patter
  • Para
  • WuWu
  • Appe
  • Chris
  • Trung Nguyen
  • Will
  • Wes
  • Pakmangallery
  • Thil Perera
  • Ed

Golden Jaye's Discussions


Started this discussion. Last reply by jyam Sep 22, 2010. 51 Replies

What is everyone's view on adoption?Would you ever adopt a child and would race/background matter?What is a good age to adopt?Would you tell them they're adopted and about their real family or refuse? Does it help or hurt the child to know you're…Continue

Can you really like one and not the other?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Nived Nair Feb 12, 2012. 23 Replies

So the Black guy at my job who's like me for sometime made it public that I am into Asian men. I felt he said it really out of hurt than out of humor but here's the thing: our White manager has asked me to be his girlfriend two days prior to this…Continue

Do you need to know how many lovers your partner had?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Sam Lam Jul 16, 2010. 21 Replies

Seriously do you really need to know abt all my past lovers/experiences? now because i live my life with no regrets/shame and have an acct of all my sexual encounterz <PoW!> i have no problem answering any questions that my potential lover may…Continue

Dreaded Calls/Texts/Questions

Started this discussion. Last reply by Frijolito Bandito Jun 13, 2012. 12 Replies

I can only speak for me and my experiences but I hate getting certain calls or texts or being ask certain questions. I hate when random guys ask/ text: Do you miss me? or an old Fuckuddy you repeatedly told no to keeps calling with that line:  What…Continue

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Detroit raised, Cali living!

A Drop of Golden's Sun

"Ain't no place is quite like here. No place in this atmosphere, stratsophere or ionosphere ain't no sphere is quite like here. Enjoy!

I have hands and I like to use them
Owner-Beats & Balance Massage Studio for dancers
Massage Therapist/Independent Contractor
Natural Bodycare Formulator.
Personal Blogger. 
Sooo I'm a not a newbie I've been on here for the past four years. You either know me or you don't. I'm a not- so-average Detroit gal living on the west coast (L.A baby!) and I'm super excited to start a new chapter in my life. I am currently starting my own massage practice called Beats and Balance Massage Studio that caters to the health of urban street dancers. I also blog. Like a lot. About race, love and honesty at 
My life consists of dancing, working out, church, aromatherapy, formulating my own bodycare products, massage and anything of the handmade/ D.I.Y sort. So I'm pretty easygoing and open most of the time, so if you ever want to know more I encourage you to do so!


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What are you looking for on this site? Be specific about your motive/purpose, in terms of what you want to look for, in one or two sentences, even if you're unsure of / new to this. Explain at your best.
Friends, networking and culture lessons
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
yes. I've been on the lookout for the past 4 years lol
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
Love it we mite be related then lol
Relationship Status (Choose One)
Single, Dating Around
Are you Adult enough to handle a site with those who you are not in agreement with? Do you understand that you may be offended because you have a different perspective than someone else's and vice versa? Can you handle that friendships, situationships, and relationships don't always work out. Are you aware that this is the internet and not everyone is genuine? Finally, will you IMMEDIATELY read the READ ME ( section of the site before beginning your adventure on Bwamu? Once you read it, type the last sentence into the answer for approval.

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At 8:07pm on April 4, 2018, Daniel Won said…

Wow are you absolutely gorgeous ahaha

At 11:20pm on January 29, 2014, Mandy said…

Heeeeey! I came across your page and got excited! haha :)

At 8:00pm on June 28, 2013, Chicago Stan said…

I Think its wonderful that you have your Own Business and moved To Cali... You were one of my first friends on this group...  We never met, but talked on the phone I think once or twice..Always thought you were cool... Just wanted To say Hi...Im  just working and taking care of mom... Im finally in the studio recording little bit now... working on my music ... So far its only a 2 man band... Me being the singer...  Take care  Holla back if you ever wanna chat :)      

At 4:45pm on June 9, 2013, Cleo said…

Congratulations!!! It has been a long time since we spoke about you becoming a therapist.

And now you are. I'm sincerely happy for you.

Tell me all about it! Have fun massaging.

Talk to you soon then.

Greetings from Amsterdam!!! 

At 6:19pm on May 13, 2013, James Lo said…

Thanks, hope to talk to you more soon. 

At 5:24pm on April 28, 2013, Alexandre said…

hi thanks for adding 

At 10:27pm on July 24, 2012, Lynelle Culpepper said…

Hey! i just saw your message lol I'm doing great, how about you?

At 9:54am on August 13, 2011, Chicago Stan said…
wishing you a happy happy birthday..:) Haven't talked with you in ages... how have you been... Hope you and your family are doing good..:)
At 10:49pm on August 12, 2011, Manga Doll said…
At 8:26pm on April 10, 2011, Lynelle Culpepper said…
I dont know about going to MD to the thing...i really want to go but i'm a poor and struggling college student lol

Golden Jaye's Blog

Right on point

Posted on January 21, 2010 at 1:30pm 0 Comments

He whispered, I whispered ( a poem)

Posted on January 15, 2010 at 2:02pm 0 Comments

The impression you left

Posted on January 15, 2010 at 1:37pm 0 Comments

(poem) Antagonist or Protagonist?

Posted on January 15, 2010 at 1:09pm 0 Comments


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***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

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