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WTF is this Ish?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Ingrid Nov 10, 2016. 4 Replies

I have a friend who is usually an ass of sorts.  Let me rephrase, some people say they give zero fucks - my friend truly gives zero fucks the majority of the time.  Anyway, the past couple times he…Continue

Your Thoughts?

Started this discussion. Last reply by  Divalicious  Aug 2, 2016. 2 Replies


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Ingrid posted a status
"Complete this phrase with a name: ____ is a sexy MF and I'd ____ anytime!!"
Sep 13, 2016
Ingrid commented on kito's group Helping hand
"The Homeless Feed Truck  is a Non-Profit that is just starting up.  The Homeless Feed Truck puts balanced meals that total 2, 000 calories in food boxes and gives the food to the homeless, homebound, and hard up in downtown Tempe, Arizona.…"
Sep 9, 2016
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Helping hand

For people who care about making this world better place! it should be all of us :)help others in need by donation, charity, volunteering, or simply share organization that needs support     See More
Sep 9, 2016
Ingrid replied to Kay's discussion long distance relationship?????
"I wouldn't call it a long distance relationship, but at the same time it is.  There is someone that I talk to regularly via Skype, text, etc.  They are a very long distance away, and we've had the discussion of how we feel about…"
Sep 8, 2016
Ingrid and Para are now friends
Sep 6, 2016
Ingrid posted a status
"I wish the Arizona group was active. Anyone want to go to Vegas for new Years?"
Sep 4, 2016
Ingrid left a comment for Paulie H.
"Thanks for the love Paulie  XOXO"
Sep 2, 2016
Ingrid and Paulie H. are now friends
Sep 2, 2016
Kouhai left a comment for Ingrid
"How come? "
Aug 21, 2016
Ingrid left a comment for Kouhai
"Your Snorkeling pic is cool but I am not one to snorkel.  I don't do natural water, I prefer to swim in a pool.  "
Aug 21, 2016
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Aug 20, 2016
Ingrid replied to FantasyStar24's discussion Pick&Choose...................
"You said it perfectly LOL Every guy I know says they prefer a woman with curves because they are more sexy.  They want to have the ability to look at a woman and see her curves, SEE everything that makes her soft and sexy.  Every guy I…"
Aug 17, 2016
Ingrid and Mit are now friends
Aug 14, 2016
Ingrid replied to Nefertitiful's discussion Big Butt and No Brains
"The answer is yes to both.  It goes both ways - when the vibe put out by the female is LLLOOOOOK AAAAT MEEEEEEEEE that's the type of guy that will be attracted.  When the vibe is "I've been through Grad school, twice -…"
Aug 11, 2016
Jasmine Elliott liked Ingrid's blog post Fact, fiction, and personal experience
Aug 9, 2016
Ingrid commented on Ingrid's blog post Finish this .... Fll in the blank
"Use a number from Text Plus Loen.  It may or may not work"
Aug 8, 2016

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I am looking for friends who understand AMBW/BWAM isn't a fetish, it's a preference. It would be great to find a local community to be a part of and make new friends all over. Finding a great guy would be fantastic but it isn't my sole mission. Friends to hang out with, not friends with benefits, is my goal.
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
I would tell my Asian male friends of course. I only have a couple of Black female friends who are interested in a site like this but I would happily tell them as well.
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
I created this? I don't remember doing that. Must have been my doppelganger
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Yes V, I read the damn page. Thank you

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What is something on your Bucket List?

Posted on August 20, 2016 at 10:18pm 2 Comments

One of the things on my Bucket List is to volunteer at the Olympics.  My brother was selected for the Rio games (lucky SOB) and I just completed my application for the 2018 games in Pyeonchang.  I really hope I get selected but the process for these games was more than my brother had to go through for Rio.  If I get selected I will figure it out though, one way or another! 

So what is on your Bucket List that you MAY be able to cross off soon?

Has this happened to you?

Posted on August 17, 2016 at 7:56pm 3 Comments

I've had a few instances where someone will send me a message and it says something like "I've met you before" but there is no picture on their profile so I have no idea who it is ... messages on Skype from random people (I found out you can Google Skype Contacts and find our little group here so BEWARE) and a few randoms on Instagram.  I have to say the Skype randoms are the most creepy ... a random guy will VIDEO CALL ME out of the blue.  I have accepted to see who it is, maybe someone…


Finish this .... Fll in the blank

Posted on August 8, 2016 at 7:04pm 4 Comments

I use .......... most often for text/chat when I am not at home because .................

For me its Kakao Talk because it's just easier to talk to my friends outside the US and its very user friendly.

Fact, fiction, and personal experience

Posted on July 20, 2016 at 8:46pm 0 Comments

I could write a novel on all the things I was told to look out for when I went to Korea.  There are SO MANY videos out there that tell you "how it really is" in South Korea - and I believed a lot of it.  Here's the thing - I didn't just believe it because so many people said it, I believed it because it seemed to mirror what I had experienced.  I knew I was going to be there for a while so I joined some websites to try and make friends and more while I was there.  I got a lot of responses…


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At 5:09pm on August 21, 2016, Kouhai said…

How come? 

At 4:09pm on August 7, 2016, Kouhai said…

Noticed your comment. Have you snorkeled before? 


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