"Thanks for the link drop Kouhai.
I'd never heard of of MAL. This is perfect because there's lots of anime i started and didnt finish or plan to start and didn't have a chance to.
I like how you can keep track of it all."
"Why, thank you :)
IMO, the only reason I say falling in love via voice is possible, is because, I'm thinking of my experiences with LDR's back in the day.
In my younger years, I was a LA-LA Land Space Cadet who meant well, but lived in a…"
"If we had no sight and had to love based on what we hear, human nature would find something to pre-judge, prefer or discriminate in the voices and vibes of others.
The brain's need to categorize would still be there.
Love still wouldn't be…"
"There were 2 instances in my life where people have died, and I spent more time expressing my love for them in death more than when they were alive.
Since then, I waste no time telling someone I love them.
Whether the feeling is mutual or not…"
Not really interested in it.
I have to admit though, during times in my life when I wasn't as confident as I could be, I'd hide behind LDR's.
I can't fathom a LDR now.
I bartend, so I have more fun with…"
What are you looking for on this site? Be specific about your motive/purpose, in terms of what you want to look for, in one or two sentences, even if you're unsure of / new to this. Explain at your best.
I've been away from the ambw community for a number of years (used to be admin of a blasian site), and want to possibly make new friends and meet like minds.
AMBW has exploded since I've been away and I want to see who's who and what's what nowadays.
......I wanna sit at the cool kid's table again.
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
Honestly, the only people I know who are interested in ambw are 2 friends I met years ago on an ambw site; I hope to meet more people IRL who know about it. If and when I meet up with like minds, I'd be glad to share links.
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
Lol Wise ass is okay.
Egotistical? We're gonna have to have a sit down about that :)
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