To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.
This is to the guys: Ever feel invisible? Ever feel like you want to dance to your favorite song, but too scared to ask anyone or even dance by yourself? One guy wished he could have my candor.…Continue
Velvet Monarch has not received any gifts yet
Out of the thousands of folks on the planet you`ve found me. I am 41, currently residing in Tampa, Florida, however, I was born and raised in San Diego, CA, never left until I joined the Navy. I honorably served 9 years, 5 as a mechanic, and left when my mom took ill. I am a proud single mom of 3 children. I am currently pursuing my dream as a digital graphic artist and animator while working in sales at a newspaper. I like to laugh and have a good time. I try to avoid drama and relish peace and quiet. I sketch and animate people. I like to read and write fantasy/ sci-fi, and horror. I love amusement parks and roller coasters. I truly believe that I should try virtually everything once,if it feels good-twice, and a third time to confirm it.
I believe that God has brought me this far, but I don`t force my views on anyone and I don't judge.
I get freaky, but I am not nasty. I am much more settled and truly embrace monagamy. At this time, I am not actively searching, as much as that I am working on myself. I believe it is better to be Ms. Right than hunt for Mr. Right. Besides, I have had my fill of Mr. Right-now`s, enough to have two football teams, and then, some to fill the stands. So if your are just looking for a nice "piece", keep looking. However, if love finds me, who am I to deny it?
I don`t know the hottest spots in Tampa, but I am actively dating right now, in moderation, mind you. Having kids, I can tell you where Chuck E. Cheese is and a few choice parks, but I am far from the party freak. My family and my career are my greatest focus right now, but I don`t mind an occasional note or email.
I like men who are different from me. I love variety, different races and unpredictable, unconventional people. I am enjoying this site immensely. I only know a handful of Asian men, there are next to none in my habitat and feel that I would love to learn, and possibly thrive, in an environment where the Asian men are KING and prefer women like myself. Why Asian men? Why not? I find Asian men extremely attractive, elusive and fascinating. I am challenging myself to artistically capture the men who friend me here on BWAMU. Of the men I have had a pleasure of speaking with, all have been incredibly awesome. One even had me writing bad poetry, I was so taken with him. Asian men are as vast and as colorful as black people. Our peoples have shared the bonds of oppression in America, right alongside native Americans. There is a quiet mystique about Asian men that I don't see in other races, they share a rich heritages and beautiful traditions. As an African American I am cut off from the homeland that gave me my dark skin and kinky hair. I would be as foreign in Africa as any other country. On the other hand, being an American allows me a freedom to adopt many different cultures into my household. I could be eating a taco in between playing a PS3 Fatal Frame game on my Samsung, after watching a Korean soap opera, wearing a dashiki made in Taiwan on a Christmas day. Just saying there is always room in my heart to experience more cultures and tastes and traditions.
I'd rather be a could-be if I cannot be an are; because a could-be is a maybe who is reaching for a star. I'd rather be a has-been than a might-have-been, by far; for a might have-been has never been, but a has was once an are.
My playlist on Youtube :)
I found these two articles on one of my favorite sites. I am not sure where they got their findings, but after reading these, all I could wonder was of that 30% and 60%, how many of them would like to get to know women like us? And how can we find out?Continue
Every man I know touches himself. There have been times I have even been fortunate to watch. The last guy I remember watching, was around my age, like in his mid 30's. He had a vast library of porn on his computer to the point where he damn near needed the Dewey decimal system to find the genre he wanted. The first thing I noticed was that there was no performance anxiety. I let him know that I was only there to observe... well, observe and buy a car he was selling. I don't judge, I…Continue