"For me it is a deal breaker. If smoking is of value to you than I agree, do not quit. Find a wonderful woman that shares the same values as you. However, I will say that if you find the right woman in your life you will do anything…"
"I do agree with you. I have dated a Korean. When I moved from Korea back to the USA he moved on with his life. So I am single again and looking for love. But not many people are looking for the same things I am."
"Be yourself. You are fine the way you are. To me, you are super cute and if you were my age, I would date you. If a girl does not like you for who you are than it’s her lost. Stay cute and do not change for no one."
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Someone who shares my interests.
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
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