Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Nika Ra
  • Female
  • West Chester, OH
  • United States

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Nika Ra's Discussions

Texas yay or nay?

Started Apr 11, 2016 0 Replies

So I'm thinking about moving to Texas in a few years, but not sure if I should? Are there any suggestions? Please include pro's and con's thank you.

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Dec 1, 2017
Nika Ra joined Jasmine 얼짱 Newkirk's group

Midwest Group!

For us underrepresented Midwestern folks!Come here and mingle! Tell us about where you are from and stuff!Maybe we can get an event going one day!<3See More
Nov 30, 2017

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What are you looking for on this site? Be specific about your motive/purpose, in terms of what you want to look for, in one or two sentences, even if you're unsure of / new to this. Explain at your best.
We would like you to tell your Asian Male and/or your Black female friends about the site, would you help us find cool people who would support interracial interaction? Please explain.
Yes as long as they don't receive too many notifications.
How do you feel about having a complete Egotistical Wise Ass as a site Creator/Administrator??? ;)
If the shoe fits wear it.
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Are you Adult enough to handle a site with those who you are not in agreement with? Do you understand that you may be offended because you have a different perspective than someone else's and vice versa? Can you handle that friendships, situationships, and relationships don't always work out. Are you aware that this is the internet and not everyone is genuine? Finally, will you IMMEDIATELY read the READ ME ( section of the site before beginning your adventure on Bwamu? Once you read it, type the last sentence into the answer for approval.
yeah I read it

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Nika Ra's Blog


Posted on August 18, 2016 at 12:20pm 1 Comment

People have abused love in so many different is it they can say "I love you" then sow discord among brethren? The same folks stir up mess, backbite, are users, lie at a drop of a dime, argue, curse, fight, have bad attitudes, funny acting, show favoritism, etc then have the audacity to tell the very ones they dog out "I love you." Stop the hypocrisy! Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Love does not hurt folks. Love loves at all times even when it's not reciprocated.… Continue

What made me like Asian men

Posted on June 18, 2016 at 4:00pm 0 Comments

When I was a little girl I remember watching Bruce Lee and he was so fine. I loved his face, eyes, hair, skin, his build. I kept watching Asian movies (Kung Fu) and really love the culture, like the art, writing, food, beauty of the countries, and of course the men. Outside of Kung Fu movies there weren't that many Asian male actors on TV, so it was hard to see them . Where I grew up, it was either black or white. So I leaned towards black men of course. But now I am tired of just settling for… Continue


Posted on April 23, 2016 at 10:34pm 0 Comments

Amen, there are so many people that are lost, broke, busted, & disgusted and we saints have to be kingdom minded, stop fighting unneccesary battles, and be unified in the body of Christ. There is a real live enemy that's seeking who he may devour he wants to kill, steal, and destroy by any means necessary. We can't afford to play church we must be the real church. Recess is over, can't be hypocrites in our walk with God. Must be about our Father's business. There are too many folks that are… Continue

What if he's not black?

Posted on March 7, 2016 at 1:49am 1 Comment

I used to think that no one could understand me like a black man. I had my IBM (Ideal Black Man) in mind and felt like I had to be true to my race. Then life happened, though I was really into black men, the ones that I attracted wasn't really into me. I got played, lied to, and used etc. Now there are great black men out there, however those were not the ones I attracted. Then it dawned on me, what if he is not black? This really changed my ideology to open up. Love has no color, rules, race,… Continue

Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

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