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Am I that ugly?

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Am I that ugly?

Everywhere I go people look at me funny and it is really affecting my confidence when trying to socialise. I get nervous and shy and essentially become extremely introverted. I don't really make an effort when Im am not nervous because the idea that I am hideous physically deters me from actually doing anything. Please be honest. Ive put on weight since I have started university which I am working on, for my health and for my self confidence. But honesty would be really appreciated. Thanks See More
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First things first hello! I'm Raffaele, nice to meet you :) I'm currently in my last year of high school/college and hope to study Theology next year at university. As anyone who's ever met me I am not your average guy or student. I' am always ambitious and try to attain the highest goal possible, and when I don't succeed I'm always thankful I at least got somewhere and I still try and remain tenacious. In a nutshell, I would characterise myself as friendly,affable, independent, articulate and somewhat intelligent.I love learning about other cultures. I find it extremely cool to learn about other peoples. Which is one of the reasons I joined this site :) I love meeting new people .I'm very friendly so please drop by and say hello. Can't wait to chat  ^_^..

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At 2:34pm on June 13, 2016, Keari said…
Thanks for the request
At 11:08am on August 3, 2015, DJ said…
I'm actually in Baltimore, MD now. That was a MUCH delayed reply. I'm sorry, I'm not on here to often >./body>
At 1:00am on August 2, 2015, De Naja' H. said…

Hey, super sorry for the late message. I got caught up haha! 

I agree. I won't name specifics, but AM and BW being together I believe does add salts to the wounds of some. Which is truly ridiculous and a never ending thing. It's really tiring to think about. 

I felt ignored most of the time on that site. It is just so "white-washed" but that is what it started out with. Just because they opened it up to everyone does mean that the mindsets of those AMs on their already will open up. It really didn't. All the posts were about WW this and WW that. So yeah. I seen one person on here from that site but I didn't think they was a moderator. And I had no idea the AMBW is big in the Caribbean 0.o. 

True about white people being seen as "gate holders". Really just because of how much power they have held throughout history in my opinion. 

Yes! AW and BM really do hate it! I don't see why they feel like they should only have options but not the other half of their races. It's so childish. And worthy of a kick to the throat xD

Cool! I'll see about getting that video up on here or a different one sometime soon. 

I am glad your French test went well and that's ok. We all get caught up in life. Mines is going well. I recently started working officially for a new job which is one of the main reason why I didn't get back to you sooner. I was training for it for over a month and basically studying like I was back in school. I'm new and I still have to keep going over things because they just piled on all these new terms, codes, numbers, and more. But so far I have proved myself well enough to become an official employee. I also recently became a member of this gym and trying to get a steady schedule going with that too. 

At 9:13am on June 24, 2015, Doracuh said…
Hey sorry for the super late message but politics, i would say, there isnt much focus on that kind of stuff at night. The city does sleep hhaha.
In San fran, yeah, we stopped by the Castro area. It was a very different, interesting experience hahaha.
London was ages ago but I think it was nice. I dont remember the trip too much but I would definitely go back one day!
At the professional games, yeah, its all about spending money at those places hahaha. Many people just eat before or after the game cause they jack up the prices at those events haha.
do you play any sports?
At 3:19pm on June 21, 2015, Shanica J. said…

im doing well sweety and you?

At 3:42pm on May 6, 2015, De Naja' H. said…

Oh yeah I totally understand what you're saying. When it comes to over saturating WW with praise, it goes for the entire race as well. The whole "you've arrived" mentality when you get with a white person. Exactly, the BW on there seem pretty cool. I didn't talk to many of them but from what the posted up they seemed worth getting to know. Mote likely on that site having BW on there is just more of a "tolerance" sort of thing. If all the BW left they wouldn't care or notice sadly (lol). For the most part you're right. AMBW itself is rare and both mostly do stay within their race or color spectrum in terms of skin. But when they date outside is typically is a white person. Maaaybe a hispanic but not as often. I think BW are more open minded though than AM when it comes to dating outside their ethnicity. Which is why BW are growing in terms of interest in AM. So hopefully this reachs more AMs sites and minds and see BW more as an option for life partnership and so forth. I think it is getting more out there, slowly, but it is. 

oh yeah, I here that crap all the time. The reason why AM and even WW shy away more from BW. It's irritating to me because they make it seem like we date someone based off "that" area. That shouldn't even been on a man's mind from the get go. Relationships or dating shouldn't be based off such minor things.  Here is an article about that from an AM:,d.b2w

That's totally ironic since many BM don't like to see BW dating other guys haha. I don't see why though. Like we can't do our own thing while you do you. It makes no sense at all. Like worry about your own self. 

I did hip hop freestyle dancing. I might put up a video from that night. Open mics and artistic events like that are great. Allows ppl to open and express themselves freely. And Chicken wings as the food haha. There is a show called chicken wings? 0.o 

How was the French test that day?

Mayday had many protests out here. But I looked up Mayday and it had nothing to do with protesting from the start. This is from wikipedia: "May Day on May 1 is an ancient Northern Hemisphere spring festival and usually a public holiday;[1] it is also a traditional spring holiday in many cultures. Dances, singing, and cake are usually part of the celebrations that the day includes." It was more so for celebrating Spring lol

At 7:53pm on May 3, 2015, jade said…


At 3:13am on May 3, 2015, De Naja' H. said…

Yeah, it just seems like it is in principle. Well I don't even know if I can say that because most of the conversations the term WW spouts out. And it's not really their loss if they're not interested anyway. It's really the egg on ours (BW) faces :( Which really keeps the thought they most AM are not interested in BW. I mean where I am at it is pretty obvious, sadly lol It's either their own kind or a WW. I don't how AM still think that BW aren't interested in them unless they just don't see all the crazy Kpop or jpop some cpop fanatics that think they're just super attractive or all these forums that talk about BW and AM. Maybe those things not many see, they really just have to be the ones out searching for it or wondering about it. I think many AM are still worried about what family and friends will say. They're not ready to stand up to them or something. Or they just look at us as sex objects I mean I am not totally sure. 

The talent show sorry, it wasn't a talent show it was an open mic. I got it mixed up with something I performed at a few months back. But it was fun. very fun. I saw a few familiar faces and for that type of venue the crowd was decent, small, but decent. Good music, vibes, food, and poetry, I turned out not to be the only one dancing just like 1 group of others. I have a video of me dancing. If I think it's ok enough I'll put it up here. My weekend has been nice. I just got back in from having a night at with my sister. We went to a sports bar for wings lol

How was your week and weekend?

At 1:14am on May 1, 2015, De Naja' H. said…

hmm, maybe they did. I just heard from a few others that they started out AMWW, hence why their little cartoon mascot was a AMWW couple. And then later on they opened it up. Right, the darkest they'll go is latinas and even with them they can be pretty light complected *sighs* so it is pretty white washed on there. I saw that the moment I joined lol

Oh okay, that was well of them to message you about being on here. I might just pop in and out occasionally on there but 99% of the time I'll be on here.

At 5:27pm on April 30, 2015, De Naja' H. said…

I understand that. I do feel it is that way on hey-Ai. I mean it was first off designed for just AMWW btut then they opened it up to everyone. But still the majority is what I just stated. Even with a few BW on there I don't really see them interacting with them nearly as much as the WW.

Oh, so what test did you have and how did you do? 

I found out about this site I think just from Googling about AMBW. I think I encountered their Youtube page first then joined the site. How's you stumble upon here?


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