Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Rebecca Spencer
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  • Oklahoma City, OK
  • United States

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A question of sorts

Posted on December 31, 2011 at 4:47am 0 Comments

This last month I've run across some bold guys. Some I have known for some time but never really talked to other than a nod or a hello. But facebook friends all the same. But its a trend for them to catch me online late and message me saying things like "You're really pretty.." Being a nice person I always thank you.. even if I'm not interested. I hate to hurt people's feelings when they approach me. But anyway.. They small talk with me for a few minutes... then I get the you should come…


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At 8:43pm on January 7, 2012, Ms. Moe said…

Birthday Graphic #396

At 11:26pm on July 6, 2011, Maestro said…

how are you?

thanks for your friend request. we can good friend! have a nice day!

At 1:37pm on July 3, 2011, Michelle Thomas said…

Hello Rebecca,


Welcome to BWAMU site! I hope you will have a good time with the site. Enjoy your Fantastic Summer!

At 8:47pm on June 29, 2011, Sunlight said…
Welcome to BWAM!
At 8:30pm on June 29, 2011, Manga Doll said…
At 9:57pm on June 28, 2011, Oriane B said…
Welcome to you Rebecca ^^
At 9:38pm on June 28, 2011, Tiffany said…
Hey Rebecca, welcome to the site.
At 9:23pm on June 28, 2011, Phoenix82 said…
Welcome to BWAM United. Hope to see you around in the chat rooms. Enjoy!

Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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