Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Sam Lam
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  • Vallejo, CA
  • United States

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Sam Lam's Discussions

What's your Morning Routine?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Kammy Dee☘ Dec 13, 2011. 6 Replies

Some are morning persons, others are the morning person hater, others are just gaga for coffee. Regardless of whichever you are, most of us do have our mornings and all the niceties and rituals that…Continue

How Do you Like Your Coffee?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Sam Lam Sep 27, 2016. 53 Replies

Mostly due to my inability to digest dairy, I have just discovered the wonderful richness of a freshly grounded cup of black coffee! The nuances of flavor as it competes against itself for a place on…Continue

Scizzorsssss! O_O Would you ever cut your own hair? :D

Started this discussion. Last reply by Loretta Oct 3, 2010. 21 Replies

On a whim (and I act on a lot of my whims -_-;) I decided to take the plunge and cut my own hair.I was already in possession of a professional electric clippers and scissors, so all it took was a…Continue


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Yes V, I read the damn page...thank you.


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Sam Lam's Blog

Wrote a Short story for fun :D "Just Croaked"

Posted on November 10, 2011 at 12:01am 3 Comments

Once upon a time, in a far away pond there live a lil green froggie. He "prances" about upon the lily pads, and gazes admiringly at his lush green surrounding. He sits patiently for the slightest flutter of wings to pass by, so he can flick his long, red tongue to catch it by surprise. He’s tummy is always satisfied, but not his heart… Content as he was living this pleasant life with golden fishes and a turtle as his companions, he was still lonesome. “What more do I want?” he thought to…


The Meaning of Glomp!

Posted on July 12, 2010 at 5:57pm 6 Comments

Glomp – A hug in the manner of a small child, similar to a bearhug but
often including one or both legs as well as arms. Also a hug in which
the hugger jumps and catches the victim by surprise or off-guard.
Occasionally referred to as a cross between a running tackle and a

Glompage - the act of glomping another

Glompness - you get the picture.... :D

/cheers for glompages!

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At 1:47am on July 29, 2016, Sheryl Martin aka Cherokee Red said…

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At 5:04am on July 22, 2012, Sheryl Martin aka Cherokee Red said…

At 2:23pm on July 21, 2012, pretty wings said…

awe u should take a break n enjoy the weather beaches, tan lines& bikinis volleyball!!!/bonfires :)

At 4:41pm on July 18, 2012, Ebony M said…
The joys of my childhood 
At 2:18pm on July 18, 2012, pretty wings said…

how is your week going so far?

At 2:07pm on July 18, 2012, Ebony M said…

the silly ones iis where its at

At 5:35am on July 18, 2012, Ebony M said…
Your name made me think of my best friend shayna lam
At 6:50pm on June 26, 2012, pretty wings said…
Thnx 4 the add^_^
At 2:00am on May 10, 2012, Sheryl Martin aka Cherokee Red said…

I like my coffee strong like a man who knows how to love a real woman! Sugar comes with the package...get it!


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***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

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***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

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