Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

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Your Favorite Anime Character and Why?

Well, my favorite anime character is Misaki Mei from the anime Another because I can relate to her through the fact that her classmates ostracized and hardly socialized with her because others thought she was "weird". …


Added by Kim Moten on April 29, 2017 at 5:56pm — No Comments

A CinderBELLA story! Three men but only ONE choice!


Added by Amanda Morgan on April 23, 2017 at 5:59pm — No Comments

Just a thought..

I just recently joined this site.. The dates of most recent interactions go back a year and even further.. Do persons even utilize this site?

Added by Rayven on March 13, 2017 at 9:32pm — 2 Comments

Asian Men

Gods, they are so sexy, different, and so very intuitive! I just want to find that special one, and begin the rest of my life...not single anymore. I am only attracted to Asian men, Gackt is a god to me, I his own way!

Added by Shakira Gray on February 17, 2017 at 9:46pm — No Comments

Steve Harvey... that's just DUMB!

I like to write so check out the full story here

Meanwhile, here is a little bit of what I gotta say...

Asian men are not the butt of jokes. No man is. But it has become a part of the culture to make fun of certain groups because it is what has always been done.  By the way, that’s called bullying.  Don’t get me started (TRUMP).  Mickey Rooney as Mr. Yunioshi in…


Added by Tam on January 17, 2017 at 4:30pm — No Comments

Anybody with me?

I have NOT been much of a participant on this site lately but I haven't given up! The way this country is going I believe different communities of color need to get to know each other more than ever!

I don't see much room to be political or activist on this site which probably makes it a lot more fun, but it doesn't leave me with much to engage with sometimes.

I have to say I see a bit of an assumption going around that Asian here means Asian and not Asian American. So that…


Added by Rad Taka on November 23, 2016 at 10:30pm — 1 Comment

Will it work out?

I'm into BDSM; a submissive. My boyfriend is not. Talking about my fantasies with always leads to an argument where he says I'm going to cheat....and to be honest I would if I didn't love him. He is so frigid. We've been together almost 6 months. What do you think, will it work out?

Added by ST on November 13, 2016 at 2:12pm — 2 Comments

Facebook Group Rules

Updated Group Rules (Revised) is made EFFECTIVE as of September 16, 2016


1. Don't block the admin(s)

Admins have a responsibility to see everyone and everything that goes on in the group that they run.

Admin(s) have group privileges which enable/disable commenting and delete your (nudity/gory/offensive racial) posts. Any…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on October 20, 2016 at 12:43pm — No Comments


It's been awhile since I've had a blog.. I'll try and see if I can use this as an avenue to express myself. I'm an odd person..very odd. People tend to misunderstand me a lot..and make sure that I know it's my fault. I'll try not to do that here. Key word being try..

Added by Kita on August 26, 2016 at 11:25pm — 2 Comments

What is something on your Bucket List?

One of the things on my Bucket List is to volunteer at the Olympics.  My brother was selected for the Rio games (lucky SOB) and I just completed my application for the 2018 games in Pyeonchang.  I really hope I get selected but the process for these games was more than my brother had to go through for Rio.  If I get selected I will figure it out though, one way or another! 

So what is on your Bucket List that you MAY be able to cross off soon?

Added by Ingrid on August 20, 2016 at 10:18pm — 2 Comments

Random Thought 1

Thinking of something to say is easy
Talking to someone new is a challenge
Keeping a conversation is hard and asking them out is the hardest

Added by Kouhai on August 18, 2016 at 12:29pm — 9 Comments


People have abused love in so many different is it they can say "I love you" then sow discord among brethren? The same folks stir up mess, backbite, are users, lie at a drop of a dime, argue, curse, fight, have bad attitudes, funny acting, show favoritism, etc then have the audacity to tell the very ones they dog out "I love you." Stop the hypocrisy! Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Love does not hurt folks. Love loves at all times even when it's not reciprocated.… Continue

Added by Nika Ra on August 18, 2016 at 12:20pm — 1 Comment

Has this happened to you?

I've had a few instances where someone will send me a message and it says something like "I've met you before" but there is no picture on their profile so I have no idea who it is ... messages on Skype from random people (I found out you can Google Skype Contacts and find our little group here so BEWARE) and a few randoms on Instagram.  I have to say the Skype randoms are the most creepy ... a random guy will VIDEO CALL ME out of the blue.  I have accepted to see who it is, maybe someone…


Added by Ingrid on August 17, 2016 at 7:56pm — 3 Comments

Biracial ir bicultural how do you deal

Many of us in the world have at least thought of being in a relationship with someone of a different culture and or different racial group. There are things that prevent that from being a reality. Be it our upbringing, social class system, money or just a difference of religions. What would that be like for you? What kind of challenges do you think you would face if you were to be in a relationship with someone that has a different background than you? Would it matter how your family felt about… Continue

Added by Shasha on August 14, 2016 at 9:11pm — No Comments

Pho get about it

My introduction into Asian was through my co-workers and schoolmates. They were Cambodian, Vietnamese, Filipino, South Korean, Chinese, Indian, Burmese, Myanmar, Hmoung, and Japanese. I learned about the many religions and food by building relationships and friendships. However there are some of these foods that are my go-to when I am in dying need comfort for example when I get a cold I usually go for pho, beef preferably. At times, when I want a quick lunch that is balanced I go for sushi.… Continue

Added by Shasha on August 14, 2016 at 9:05pm — No Comments

Food let's get into it

So, there's a few things that I love about food. Flavor, texture, size, smell and appearance. Growing up in a multicultural home and through my worldly travels, I've learned there are some basic ingredients in many famous dishes that all of us love so much. Here they are:

1. Garlic

2. Tomato

3. Onion

4. Salt

5. Pepper

6. Oil

There are a few others I cant think of at the moment. However, if you walk into anyone's home while they are cooking or a… Continue

Added by Shasha on August 14, 2016 at 8:53pm — No Comments

Finish this .... Fll in the blank

I use .......... most often for text/chat when I am not at home because .................

For me its Kakao Talk because it's just easier to talk to my friends outside the US and its very user friendly.

Added by Ingrid on August 8, 2016 at 7:04pm — 4 Comments

Favorite Anime Spring 2016

Favorite Sequel Series: 

JoJo no Kimyou na Bouken: Diamond wa Kudakenai

Favorite New Series:

Sakamoto desu ga?…


Added by Kouhai on August 7, 2016 at 11:55am — No Comments

Fact, fiction, and personal experience

I could write a novel on all the things I was told to look out for when I went to Korea.  There are SO MANY videos out there that tell you "how it really is" in South Korea - and I believed a lot of it.  Here's the thing - I didn't just believe it because so many people said it, I believed it because it seemed to mirror what I had experienced.  I knew I was going to be there for a while so I joined some websites to try and make friends and more while I was there.  I got a lot of responses…


Added by Ingrid on July 20, 2016 at 8:46pm — No Comments

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Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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