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To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

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Updated Group Rules (Revised) is made EFFECTIVE as of September 16, 2016


1. Don't block the admin(s)

Admins have a responsibility to see everyone and everything that goes on in the group that they run.

Admin(s) have group privileges which enable/disable commenting and delete your (nudity/gory/offensive racial) posts. Any…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on October 20, 2016 at 12:43pm — No Comments

Quality Women

(To partially Answer and Address What was asked in Bwamu Chat today...What is a Quality Woman to You V?)
This is She...
Loyal and Faithful: She is dedicated to her inner direction, and confident of her choices and choice in partner. Every…

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on December 1, 2015 at 5:09am — 5 Comments

"I've never been approached by one"

As of late I've been talking to a lot of (Black) women who suddenly become open to inter-racial dating in their late 30's and 40's.  These women exclusively have dated and been in relationships/marriages with no one else.  I suppose we can say that most of the population sticks to their own race.  Black Women Asian Men pairing driving at the lowest of all inter-racial marriages.  I've cited a lot of reasons, which I will restate now.  1. Population in America (Simply more racially labeled…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on June 29, 2015 at 3:41am — 11 Comments

The Current Love Situations...

Love has knocked on many of my doors as of late. I've turned a few of those handles, but can't seem to unlock those tumblers for anyone. I keep on peeping through those eye holes and imagine possible futures play out. I'm really conversing through barriers still reminded to have my house in order before letting anyone in. There was a point I wished that perfect someone would come along and rearrange my humble abode...but I awake knowing there is no room or responsibility …


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on June 19, 2015 at 1:28am — 1 Comment

Fall of Great Men

Greater men fall into ruin for love of women plowed by yet other lower men. How unfortunate this cycle is denied, yet one closest to reality. As in side effect, blindness to the inner value of more equal women who come along serve nothing but balance...for us who are ruined can only value for sexual favors or beauty, ironically the same value the ones we fell in love with give themselves up for in betrayals... The end result is to go on never trusting and experiencing true love ever…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on May 1, 2015 at 1:42pm — 1 Comment

Bwamu Is Legacy

Over the years I've come to accept that my legacy is a past I cannot escape, yet overcame. And with that includes Bwamu and the many lives it has effected on and off the net. What is unfortunate is that all of these things are double edged swords for those who hoped for my failure -and those who believed and supported my dreams. What is more saddening is that the everyday things I do, the little things that I put tremendous efforts to...will be forgotten and overlooked, and all that…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on April 24, 2015 at 4:30am — 1 Comment

On Faith

The problem with faith is that having it disallows those that are faithful to question what they believe, and perpetuates itself by questioning only the beliefs outside of it. The only way to have an open mind is to understand that we might have been taught to have a closed one.


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on April 24, 2015 at 4:29am — 1 Comment

30 Things About V - The things you wanted but didn't want to know. The things you heard about...

30 Things About Me

I promised that I would get this done before 2011.  This is it, and if you aren’t prepared for realness, I advise you skip this note.  I know for a lot of people, Facebook is related to politics, reputation, and or jobs, and the fear of giving your deepest parts of Self is freighting for most of the population…except for me.  Since it such high content, I expect most people to not read it, and I’m fine with that, it’s yet again,…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on April 24, 2015 at 4:00am — 14 Comments

Before You Add To The Nonsense

Before you claim to know me, and all about me, sit in the same room with me.  

Before you come to a judgment, conclude that you only assume these things, mainly from what others say.

Before you speak as if your opinion had any weight, weigh also the bias from your ignorance.  

Before you look down your nose to the image you created of me, walk my walk and see if you would have survived it.  



These things you cannot do.  Because you…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on April 29, 2014 at 3:09am — No Comments

The Strumming of Your Strings...

It starts with a tone...


Smooth warm clear cream

Wet juicy nectar of fruit

Fill me with joy as I fill you

True sweet syrup honey on my lips

Slipping in breathless

Slipping out endless

Mists of kisses holding on us relentless

Restless moment moaning in mornings

Oral pouring of pleasure that measure

Immeasurable insanity driven

By motions only lovers know

Shown through eyes and movements of…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on May 14, 2011 at 11:19pm — 7 Comments

Shyness, Love, and Such... (Not My Peice, but I read it and hope for all the shy people to read it too)

10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I…

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on April 11, 2011 at 12:48am — 8 Comments

My Infinite Affinity

I got that nerd flirt swagg with some freaky on my mind, I'll tell you all about it -when you ask -when you call -when you message -take it all -take you back -to a place -between smiles -let me taste, let me search, let me touch, hey there friend, I want you much, I need you rough, I feel your soft, if it gets wet, we get it off, we get on, yeah I'll say it, get it on, get it good, get it great, pulled it off, all your lace, all your fear, I set you free, I give you mind, I give you V, I give… Continue

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on March 2, 2011 at 10:20am — No Comments

:(_ _ _

I had to face that age old dilemma again. Friends Vs. Fact. Being caught between being loyal or honest, I usually choose being truthful. If you don't want to know...don't ask me. If you ask me and then I plead the 5th, then you know the truth. I can't win, it's times like these that I have to find those who value what I do. A friend made me realize that we all want the same things, we just all go about it differently.

When it comes to war and competition, the ends and… Continue

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on February 28, 2011 at 10:05am — 1 Comment

Posted by Aaby Aabaakawad--Hate hate hate!

Whether we are good or bad ppl, we are all in competition with each other. Generally, we compete within our identity group, within what we consider to be our social circle.

Two psychological sources I can think of for the crabs in a barrel b...ehavior.

-- 1. Zero Sum Thinking (More for you means less for…

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on January 8, 2011 at 2:34pm — 1 Comment Beatiful.

Love is rare, and true love rarer.

Close to impossible.

There are many men- not only Asian men,

Who know that Black Women are Beautiful.

They are limitless, boundless, wells of Passion,

They are strong, soft, smart, and sometimes sassy,

But my brothers, heed me when I say,

At the end of the day,

Black Women is not a "they,"

Because the ONE you are looking for is a SHE,

an individual, a heart, a mind - a being.

That just so happens to…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on December 12, 2010 at 9:46pm — 5 Comments

Damn this was pretty accurate.

PISCES - The Partner for Life (February 19 to March 20) Caring and kind.

Smart. Likes to be the centre of attention. Very organized. High appeal

to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to

keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at

times and gets hurt easily. VERY ...…


Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on October 5, 2010 at 4:18pm — 5 Comments

The Measure of a Man, The Failure, The Future

Right now I'm thinking about what the measure of a man is...or more so, what is the measure for me. If you look at the site, and it's effect of eternally connecting people...some would say that I'm successful. But as I look at my newborn son, something inside of me feels like that I am not enough. On the site, and in life social settings...people would say that I'm "The Man." However, once you place me in life's perspective, that measure doesn't count as much.

All the people around me… Continue

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on August 21, 2010 at 2:24pm — 1 Comment

I've spent my whole life fighting...

These few months, I've been feeling the pressure. The site, removing people, Jasmine's death, the email with the past with the lack of truth...and just people hating. I have a child on the way. I get messages of "I hate you" to "I love you" from all sides.

All these people around me...I am still alone within this hurricane which is my life. Every step I take into a positive direction, I feel the urge of those pulling against me, back...I resist by saying that it's me, the…

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on July 19, 2010 at 1:51am — 1 Comment

Class Project


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Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on February 5, 2010 at 2:00am — No Comments

What if the Game was Flipped?

Women Want a Relationship, And Men Want Sex...

What if She said she just wanted sex and not the relationship, went out with you and denied you the sex? How would you feel?

Where did this all come from? Well, women go in from promises of a relationship, but don't get it a lot of the times...

Added by V...Catchy Cool Username on January 20, 2010 at 4:32am — 1 Comment

Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




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