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Ingrid's Blog (4)

What is something on your Bucket List?

One of the things on my Bucket List is to volunteer at the Olympics.  My brother was selected for the Rio games (lucky SOB) and I just completed my application for the 2018 games in Pyeonchang.  I really hope I get selected but the process for these games was more than my brother had to go through for Rio.  If I get selected I will figure it out though, one way or another! 

So what is on your Bucket List that you MAY be able to cross off soon?

Added by Ingrid on August 20, 2016 at 10:18pm — 2 Comments

Has this happened to you?

I've had a few instances where someone will send me a message and it says something like "I've met you before" but there is no picture on their profile so I have no idea who it is ... messages on Skype from random people (I found out you can Google Skype Contacts and find our little group here so BEWARE) and a few randoms on Instagram.  I have to say the Skype randoms are the most creepy ... a random guy will VIDEO CALL ME out of the blue.  I have accepted to see who it is, maybe someone…


Added by Ingrid on August 17, 2016 at 7:56pm — 3 Comments

Finish this .... Fll in the blank

I use .......... most often for text/chat when I am not at home because .................

For me its Kakao Talk because it's just easier to talk to my friends outside the US and its very user friendly.

Added by Ingrid on August 8, 2016 at 7:04pm — 4 Comments

Fact, fiction, and personal experience

I could write a novel on all the things I was told to look out for when I went to Korea.  There are SO MANY videos out there that tell you "how it really is" in South Korea - and I believed a lot of it.  Here's the thing - I didn't just believe it because so many people said it, I believed it because it seemed to mirror what I had experienced.  I knew I was going to be there for a while so I joined some websites to try and make friends and more while I was there.  I got a lot of responses…


Added by Ingrid on July 20, 2016 at 8:46pm — No Comments

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