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So without a lot of drama, we didn't make it. I was really bummed for a little bit, but  i think it's for the best.  we're going to try to stay friends. Though it's going to be hard, He says he still feels the same way, but I can't do it anymore. I just hope that other folks are having waaaaay better luck then I did! <3 Have a great Sunday! - Sun 

Added by Sunlight on October 14, 2012 at 10:30pm — 1 Comment

Follow up Venting

Sooooo boys and girls. In my lat post I mentioned that there was this guy online that I was feeling. Apparantly he's feeling me to cause he was talking to some of our mutual friends about me, and all of it was good! ::pops collar and struts:: Unfortunatly, now we are both constantly working and we don't get to see each other as much, so it makes it kind of hard to make a move. ::stomps around and kicks...okay pats a puppy on the head cause she can't kick anything:: I'm hoping to see him this… Continue

Added by Sunlight on July 19, 2011 at 5:23pm — 2 Comments


Okay so… There is this guy (isn’t there always). I dig him. I’m not in love, and not even in like with him yet, but I’m digging him.  I’ve thrown out all kinds of hints to let him know I’m interested. Barring me stripping naked painting myself with honey and streaking through the mall with a sign that says “I’ll be your huckle berry” I think we could have something, and we talk all the time. I think he’s stuck me in the friends zone, and I’m not sure what else I can do to get out of it short…


Added by Sunlight on June 25, 2011 at 10:18pm — 2 Comments

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