Black Women Asian Men United

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In all honesty, this use to be my theme song for the past year and a half.  I believe this is a great song to listen to when one feels like they are not the "it" girl/guy.  When you're compared to other girls (for example since I'm a chick) it makes you feel ugly, unattractive, low about yourself.  Yea, his eyes are wondering and you're probably wondering what is he thinking.. like "o my, he's checking that girl out.. she's prettier than me.. great, now he's going to leave me".. oh f*cking well! if he decides to leave then smack his ass upside his head! just kidding, but seriously, just let him (same for guys, if she wants to leave you because she thinks she can find better then o well!).  Don't try to change yourself for NO ONE unless it's for you and only you.  You have to learn to love yourself first anyways.  People always think they can do better until they try to actually accomplish that, but then they realize it's nothing what they expect and that's on them.  I must say this, don't let them come back.. they had their chance.. they blew it and someone who deserves you is waiting for you.  I believe there's someone out there for all of us, we just have to roam around the world a bit so they can find us and vice versa.  So STAY STRONG! PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN! EMBRACE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF! AND SOMEONE WOULD LOVE YOU FOR YOU!


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Comment by Crystal on September 2, 2013 at 10:34pm

One of my favorite TLC songs of all time.

Still love it after all these years, and definitely could relate to the lyrics at one point in time not too far away.

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