Black Women Asian Men United

To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

Okay so… There is this guy (isn’t there always). I dig him. I’m not in love, and not even in like with him yet, but I’m digging him.  I’ve thrown out all kinds of hints to let him know I’m interested. Barring me stripping naked painting myself with honey and streaking through the mall with a sign that says “I’ll be your huckle berry” I think we could have something, and we talk all the time. I think he’s stuck me in the friends zone, and I’m not sure what else I can do to get out of it short of putting a sign on my chest that says “available ask at counter”. Cute outfits aren’t working. Flirting isn’t working. So I’m kinda at that point that’s telling me to throw deuces and chalk that one up to the game. I’m cool if I’m not his type, and I can totally handle rejection, but knowing that was the case would be awesome.




Screaming Sunlight

Views: 18


You need to be a member of Black Women Asian Men United to add comments!

Join Black Women Asian Men United

Comment by Sunlight on September 1, 2011 at 2:47pm
::laughs:: Yeah, i did tell him, and we are now going out! It took a little getting used to. He says he feels the same why i do, so i guess right now any doubts are just me being neurotic. I'll keep everyone posted!
Comment by Sunlight on July 10, 2011 at 11:13am
::laughs:: yeah taking that leap is going to be haaaaaarrrrd! But you're right not figuring it out is going to be worse then living with that i guess i'll do it tonight and see what happens. (convient since i'll see him to night, but hey!)  Wish me luck!

Our Mission (Tenative)

***To support, encourage, & promote interaction between Asian Men & Black Women.

***To be tolerant of all views of all members on this site.m (Suffering and disagreements are part of life people.)

***Respect all religious, spiritual, and agnostic views of it's members.

***To be more accepting than exclusive, yet hold the right to remove those that harm others.

*Freedom of speech, thought, and heart are placed if they are based on the foundation of truth and don't injure others (in the defined form of physical, proprietorial, or financial harm). Debate, heated or otherwise are allowed, for it is the persons involved that must deal with the emotional or mental "suffering," if any.

****P.S. Learn how to take a joke, and identify the intent of the people which you are talking to.  You are responsible for yourself, your own responses, reactions, and giving power to yourself and others over you.  Be accountable, don't play victim all the time.  These are still people, some people are up front, others hide behind their profiles.  Don't make personal issues site issues, if you take off your clothes on skype or in real life and bicker about it on Bwamu...guess what, it's a personal issue.  Grow up.

***All that is needed for membership is the support of the movement, and active participation by all!




 If you would like to see certain changes or want to try out to be an admin...write out in bullet text what can be changed, policies, and or site enhancements.  Then write a short essay on what you think the site mission is and how we get there.



© 2018   Created by V...Catchy Cool Username.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service