lol thank you ssooo much! i was about to lose it lol. it's very cold- at least to me. it's not as rainy as most people think but the air is cold. i'd rather be back home, on my hammock, sippin' a margarita watchin' palm trees in the breeze lol.
I've heard comfort is a sign of stagnation, so seems reasonable to feel how you feel. I don't have a particular place in mind, but I'm not going to turn down any possibilities if they are far from home. I agree, based on what you said, my discomfort with the idea is a good thing *sigh* life. On a lighter note, how are the holidays looking? Festive?
I'm realizing that I may be away from home, like, permanently. It's not a bad thing, it's more of a "when did this happen?!" feeling. I'm excited. Are you saying that you're bored with what you're doing or just ready for something different?
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